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November 10, 2008 at 3:44 pm #23064lovelylouise
i’m 15 and i think i’m 4weeks pregnant (not so sure because until now i didn’t do any pregnancy test)well actually i did once after i had a sex (10/2)and i did a pregnancy test (10/13)and it’s negative i don’t know why i do some crazy test although i know that i’n not…actually supposed to be my period for the month of October will be (10/18-10/20)…and ater we had a sex in 10/2…we did it again i 10/8,10/13,10/14,10/15….and until now my period didn’t came!!!….so I’m so so so stressed about Am I Pregnant??…this few weeks i felt some symptoms of being a pregnant like….
_of course what i said i missed my period
_sometimes i’m so irritate of something i can’t explain
i can’t do some pregnant test because I’m scared also of what will be the result…and what I should do if it’s positive? how can I tell to my parents? they sure would kill me and of course how I’ll tell to the boy who is responsible for this because he say so he’s not ready..
ok BOUT my boy actually he is not my boy friend…he’s just my brod(in our fraternity-sorority)and a good friend of mine…i fall for him because of his sweetness,caring…i don’t know i’m just comfortable with him..!!well I know he has a girl friend…although i know it still i do that thing SEX with him…how stupid Am I right…because i really really love him…he have a problem with her girl because his girl friend has no time for him so I have…so every time we get to a party I’m with him…I know and i felt it he is happy with me but the thing is still I’m not his girl friend and that’s my mistake…!!!
about 2weeks when my period missed i talked to him i went to their house…I just want to know his answers and if he is ready…because i’m so scared at that time too…because i’m two weeks delay on my period so i want to ask him.I said to him that i think I’m pregnant and he’s sooooooo shocked and asked me if i did some pregnant test and I said NO and I don’t want to we’re shouting each other because he said so that he was afraid if her girl friend know about this problem and all he said to me that if it’s true that I’m pregnant he wants to ABORT it…and that thing is i don’t want to…so i said to him that i don’t even need you and until now we have no communication…!!!ahhh how stupid I am right? but still I DO LOVE HIM..!!!November 10, 2008 at 5:52 pm #23065EmmaA
If you are pregnant dont abort your baby just because the boy wants to, i made that mistake and i dont think anyone else should. xxNovember 10, 2008 at 11:39 pm #23070Anonymous
It does sound like you might be pregnant, but don’t freak out, take a test and see what the answer is. It is better knowing for sure than not knowing at all.
If you find out that you are pregnant, take a deep breath and go see someone that can help you, like at a crisis pregnancy center, and see what they say.
So take a test and come back on and tell us what’s going on and whether or not you are pregnant.
Don’t keep saying that you are stupid and then doing nothing about it. If you know that it is wrong, than stop. A guy who is willing to cheat on his girl friend to get some free sex is not the sweet caring guy you think he is. I understand that you are in love with him, and I know that’s a really hard place to be, but try to think about it aside from the way you feel about him. Even if you ended up getting married to him someday, if he was willing to cheat on his girlfriend he’ll be ten times more likely to cheat on you.
I really hope that everything works out for you, and don’t forget to update us, ok? 🙂November 11, 2008 at 2:01 am #23076Anonymous
It seems like you have realized your mistakes that you have made throughout this, but don’t let the baby take the blame for those. Stand up for the life of your child and ignore his father, if you are in fact pregnant. You have the symptoms, but don’t stress out and wait until you can have an accurate test. Take it one day at a time and figure out if you are or aren’t first.November 11, 2008 at 7:29 am #23080annette
Being 15 is hard. I remember a lot of those feelings you mentioned. “Sex” and “Hormones” can really cloud the clarity of situations… I am glad that you are reaching out to others. Your parents will be upset, but in the grand scheme of life (and believe me, this is just a moment), your parents will be able to help you. Please turn to an adult in your life. It is normal to be scared. I am in my thirties, and if I were pregnant again, I would be scared too… but, that would only be for a little while. A baby in your life is not the end of the world…. it is the beginning of two new lives together. Yours as you know it will change… but, that is not a bad thing. It can be wonderful. You are so young and unable to see what a blessing a baby in your life will be. And, even if you do not think you can care for the baby, many other women who cannot have children would give anything to adopt yours. Your baby will be loved if you chose life… If you do not, then your baby will no longer have life. And, trust me, this is not something you want to live with. Even though I have forgiven myself and I know that God has forgiven me for aborting my first child, the pain of killing my first child is with me every day. How I wish that decision was different. Once you kill the baby, you cannot give him/her their life back. But, if you have the baby, you will offer the baby an opportunity for life beyond what you can imagine now. Moms and Dads will be upset over many things. You are growing up and it is time for you to Stand Up for yourself and your baby. If you are not pregnant, then, your mom and dad will be able to help you with some of your feelings/hormones. All humans go through this… Learning how to control them is a part of growing up too. Please go to your parents. The pain of disappointing them is only temporary. Best of luck to you.November 11, 2008 at 12:37 pm #23084lovelylouise
i don’t know..i really don’t know what should I do but sure thing is I’ll not abort this even if my pregnancy test is POSITIVENovember 14, 2008 at 1:54 am #23126Anonymous
You need to find out, no matter the results. The test isn’t going to make it positive or negative, it is what it already is!
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