hi hun, hugs and a warm welcome to SUG. There’s nothing stupid about needing advice and support, I’m sorry that you find yourself in this position and without a support system close to home- you should applaude yourself for standing up and speaking out:)
My first question would be if you want to keep the baby and also of you’ve considered adoption. Abortion is not always as final as it seems.
I cannot stress how important it is to speak to your SO about how you feel about this pregnancy and about your options.
Please keep us posted on your situation and how you’re doing, coping and feeling.
Peace and Light,
A FEW NEW CHANGES. I DID TALK TO A FRIEND, SO TO SPEAK (AN EX FRIEND’S SISTER). ONLY BECAUSE SHE HAS HAD AN ABORTION AND AT THAT POINT- THAT WAS WHAT HE WAS HINTING TO. SHE REFUSED TO TALK TO ME ABOUT THAT AS AN OPTION. REQUESTED TO CALL ME BACK AND A FEW MINUTES LATER HER MOM AND HER THREE WAY CALLED. OFFERING THIER FULL 100% EMOTIONAL SUPPORT EVEN THOUGH THEY LIVE OUT OF STATE. BASICALLY TELLING ME THAT GOD DID NOT ALLOW ME TO SURVIVE ALL I HAD BEEN THROUGH THIS PAST YEAR AND ALLOW ME TO BECOME PREGNANT FOR NOTHING! SO WHAT COULD I SAY TO THAT? LOL-THEY ARE RIGHT! HUSBAND HAS BEEN VERY CAUTIOUS IN TALKING ABOUT THIS AT ALL, BUT DEFINATELY DOES NOT WANT TO TERMINATE IT.
SO, I GUESS WE ARE BOTH AGREEING TO START THIS JOURNEY AND TRY TO HANDLE THINGS AS THEY COME? WE ARE JUST TERRIFIED OF HOW/WHERE WE ARE GOING TO FIND ANOTHER HOUSE THAT WE CAN AFFORD AND TRYING TO KEEP THINGS SILENT UNTIL WE GET OUR DUCKS IN ORDER. BUT I GUESS GOD WILL PROVIDE A WAY FOR THAT TOO?!
I STILL NEED LOTS OF SUPPORT. SO I’LL BE CHECKING IN.
I cannot tell you how happy I am to hear that 🙂 You’ll always have support and kind words here too, so pop in and keep us updated on how you and baby are doing. I hope you have a happy and healthy pregnancy! Hugs and best wishes,