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  • #26471
    AvatarLittleGirl_x

    before you think & judge by my age
    im no slag, drug user?,dont smoke, anything atall? never have..
    so now thats out the way
    ive bin with this lad a couple of months now & waited about 4 until we slept togehter
    i didnt loose my virginity to him
    as ive had a 16 month relation ship with a previous lad:
    and got pregnant to him& decided to keep it but had a miscarraige(U)!
    my mum & dad new and was more upset&dissapointed than anythin…
    so now this boyfriend we waited a few months & had sex unprotected about 4 times?
    he swore he never cum up me, until i said well u bet not have i cant take nothin ? no tablets…
    over somethins whats went on in my life recently..
    & ive always been againt abortion
    im so scared:'(
    i’ve missed 2periods now, and havent had a test because the nearest chemist my auntys work at.. & my mums best mate is the receptionest at the doctors:
    i dont no what to doo:(
    i dont want this baby! as im a model: & size 4? ill get BAD stretch marks& dont want to loose my figure
    but i cant take tablets : of anysort
    and againt abortion:'(
    soemone help PLEASEEE !! :'(:'(

    #26472
    AvatarNewfie14

    ok hon, well first, just calm down, i’m sorrie to tell you but you CAN get pregnant ven if he dosent ejaculate. it’s called pre ejaculation. the chances are slim, but it DOSE happen. yes you must be scared, but hon, you KNOW if you have sex THERE IS A CHANCE YOU MIGHT GET PREGNANT.
    it’s good your against abortion, i am to.
    but hon, you can also get your body back. not all weman get bad bad stretch marks, there are things now you can use.
    you could think about adoption maybe? i know it sounds hard. but if you don’t want the baby, you could give it to a nice couple that dose…

    #26473
    Avatarcams2know

    follow your heart! do not get an abortion., ok? about your physical problem that might happen to you., accept to have it., but you still be flawless even having that., just care of your body and skin

    #26474
    Avatarbritbrat

    okay you need to calm down. First please dont do abortion it kills people and tears down self esteem beleive me i no but anyway you reallly should keep the baby since u decided to have sex with this guy you will get ur body bak i promise

    #26477
    AvatarLittleGirl_x

    iif i gave birth
    id keep <3
    i no kids who dont no there parents& all thaa
    there destroyed,like theres always somethin missin:! xx
    & hee said he cumd up me: & ino about al pre cum & tha:(
    i jus cantbelive how stupid av bin its proper gettin to me!
    hm..
    i think i'll have to go with the adoption:(
    this is gonna kill me forever...
    but i jsut cannot give birth to a baby what is gonna be in my way
    i wanna get somewhere with my modelin seen as ive just got back with them
    thankyou xx

    #26485
    Avatarlost_dayna

    im 13 and 8 weeks. adoption is hard it looks as if it could be easier i havnt told my parents because i dont know what im doing but i wont have the option of adoption because my mum was but it different for different people i hope u do well in ur modeling 😛

    #26538
    AvatarRhea_Bee

    No one is here to judge you, hun. You really should tell your parents, as hard as that my be, so they can help you. As far as figure goes, stretch marks will fade or in some cases won’t appear at all.You can put your baby up for adoption if you don’t want to keep it.
    Hope this helps. Good luck 🙂

    #26546
    AvatarEvangeline

    ok, I’m sorry that the next few sentences from me are going to be harsh… but I think that someone here needs to say it. “A baby that is going to be in my way”?! What is up with that?!!!! YOU are the one who chose to have unprotected sex NOT that innocent little life that you are carrying around. And selfishly stressing about a modelling carear instead of the health and wellbeing of your unborn child.
    You need to grow up and get a grip! Go and see a doctor, because if you really are pregnant and against abortion, there’s going to be a bump pretty soon and the last thing that you want is for someone to push you into an abortion when you are way past the “safe” point for one.
    I think that the only sensible thing that I read here was that you’re opting for an adoption, because that baby definitely deserves someone who will love him/her and not see them as the biggest burden on their path.

    #26555
    Avataramynelovesyou

    I’m sorry you are in this perdicament, but….. I’m Sorry if this sounds harsh, The only Logical thing for you to do is to go to the doctor, ASAP. Also i was 97 pounds when i got pregnant with my son. i was a size 0. I gained 83 pounds and i have 3 strech marks and i am now 110 and i am very happy at this weight. so do try to use that as an excuse.

    And adoption is always an option. There are millions of people that would love to Have a child and cant. At least Give it a shot.

    Now go to the Doctor.

    #26569
    Avatarchristyrose

    I know it is scary that you are pregnant at this age. First I would go get a pregnancy test and if is positive call an obgyn dr. If it is negative you need to still call your dr and see what is happening. Just because you get pregnant doesnt mean you are never getting back to your normal size again. I had my first baby at 22, and after 5 months I lost all the 50 lbs I gained and at 7 months lost even more. I got back to my size 5/6. I did get stretch marks, but not everyone does. I would trade my stretch marks being gone for my sons birth. Gaining so much weight was scary for me, but it has made me realize that if I do gain weight that I can lose it. I have more confidence about the way I look now, because I realize that I am not fat, now that I know what fat is.LOL. I have been using Bio Oil since I had my son, and its helped with the stretch marks fading. I wish I had know about it before because I think I wouldnt have got as many if I had used it the whole time…

    I know it might be hard if your moms friend works at the dr office, but legally she cant even tell your mom your pregnant or she will lose her job, so dont worry about that part. I am sure she will not even know why you are coming in, and she doesnt need to. Girls go to an obgyn for lumps in their breast, Urinary Tract Infections and regular check ups all the time, so there is no reason to think that you are not doing the same, expecially since you arent showing.

    Let us know how the appt goes and what the dr says!!

    #26590
    Avatariswaggaliciious

    LittleGirl_x wrote:

    before you think & judge by my age
    im no slag, drug user?,dont smoke, anything atall? never have..
    so now thats out the way
    ive bin with this lad a couple of months now & waited about 4 until we slept togehter
    i didnt loose my virginity to him
    as ive had a 16 month relation ship with a previous lad:
    and got pregnant to him& decided to keep it but had a miscarraige(U)!
    my mum & dad new and was more upset&dissapointed than anythin…
    so now this boyfriend we waited a few months & had sex unprotected about 4 times?
    he swore he never cum up me, until i said well u bet not have i cant take nothin ? no tablets…
    over somethins whats went on in my life recently..
    & ive always been againt abortion
    im so scared:'(
    i’ve missed 2periods now, and havent had a test because the nearest chemist my auntys work at.. & my mums best mate is the receptionest at the doctors:
    i dont no what to doo:(
    i dont want this baby! as im a model: & size 4? ill get BAD stretch marks& dont want to loose my figure
    but i cant take tablets : of anysort
    and againt abortion:'(
    soemone help PLEASEEE !! :'(:'(

    Hun, I’m also a model and let me tell you something a figure is easy to gain back with lots of exercise and good balanced diet. There is nothing you can do about stretch marks but they do fade away. If you decide to keep this baby then you need to mature a little more and you have time for that before the baby comes. I’m 16 and 37 weeks pregnant so there is no way I can judge you for being a teen mom to be, and I also cant stand those judging [witches] they drive me nuts. The point is that you need to put your child before you and your career. The life that was all about you is over now you got to start a new chapter and that is being a mother. Its a big change but its worth it. It does not mean you cannot proceed with your career it just means that it will be on hold because all the money you need will be going for that baby.

    #26789
    AvatarAnonymous

    i was 13 and 16 wks when my parents found out tell them dont let it get back arround to them becasue then there more dissapointed. be streight up and tell them you want whats best for you and your child not whats best 4 them.. xo hope everything goes well

    #26797
    Avatariswaggaliciious

    I agree with babbiehgirl

    #26808
    AvatarMonitia04

    If ur a model then when u have the baby i’m sure that would give u all the motivation u need to get back to that size for if u want to keep booking jobs good luck with whatever decision u make just dont abort think about adoptions and for the strech marks theres surgery for that well laser surgery maybe when u get a lil older if they dont fade

    #26811
    AvatarXMrsWestCoast

    I wouldn’t judge you because of your age, at all.

    I fell pregnant at 15 myself, to a partner I had been with for 2 years, I made the decision in the end to have an abortion because he had been sleeping around behind my back over Xmas with my Bestmate and I fretted I wouldn’t be able to do it alone, my parents’ wouldn’t except etc, etc. And yes, because I was 15 at the time.

    I went ahead with the abortion, and thought I was fine. For months even, until maybe 3 or even 4 months down the track I started to feel WORSE than ever about the decision I had made, I held huge regrets! It was horrible. And I turned quite strongly to drinking, and to smoking Marijuana.

    Anyway, time went by, 2 years. Still holding regrets. I had moved on from my partner I had the abortion to as things were never the same between us, I had fallen into another realtionship, with an ex from years ago. And we were happy. We had unprotected sex, for 3 months, and nothing happened. I started to believe that I couldn’t get pregnant, that the abortion had obviously made me infertile, as I had suffered from Pelvic Inflammatory Disease after the abortion.
    I kept taking regular pregnancy tests that all kept coming back Negative.
    Then one day, just under 4 months ago, I thought I would take another pregnancy test, with no doubt that the Negative response would have changed, and what do you know, PREGNANT. :O

    I couldn’t believe it!
    I didn’t doubt for one second in my mind. I was keeping that child no matter what! I was so excited and scared and I told my partner right away who was incredibaly happy and supportive.

    Telling my parents’ was the worst, mom wanted to kick me out, and dad threatned to move out if I didn’t. My nana was supportive, and so were my Partners’ parents’.
    When my mom came around, dad came around soon after and they were great.

    I am now 5 months pregnant, and my parents’ are actually excited about the baby, especially my mom.

    I am so thankful and blessed to be having a healthy Baby Girl. I feel like I made the best decision in my life.
    I myself, was rather small before I fell pregnant, and had a great body.
    I do everything I can to try and prevent the stretch marks, but at the end of the day, it’s all for another life? My Baby Girl.

    I think just really think about what you want.
    To keep your apperance that will fade in 25/30 years anyway? Or keep this life inside of you that will complete you and you will be so thankful for, for the rest of your life.

    Babies are amazing.
    And when you start to feel their kicks inside of you, it’s the most incredible feeling.
    It’s the best gift!

    Just really think about your decision.

    (:

    #26818
    AvatarMoonbean1995

    Hunnie I sorta in your situation as well.
    I mean you should know that even tho he does cum in you you still can be. the whole time you have sex he cums a little, it a slim chance but does happen. If you are going to have unprotected sex then you need to understand your putting your self in risk for becoming pregnant.If you don’t want the baby then #1 don’t have sex, or at lease have the guy wear protection. #2 if you don’t want an abortion then you put that out of the question to happen, maybe adoption it sounds hard to give up the baby you carried inside you for 9 month and then give birth to give them up but if you don’t want the baby adoption could be the thing for you there are plenty of couples that want to have kids but can not. there are open adoptions where you will still see your baby like pictures and such or closed where you give them the baby and that the end of it. so just think about it. Take an over the counter test and go from there.btw not all girls get horrible stretch marks and huge and if so they have thing these day to get you back to normal.

    #26828
    Avatar2hearts1soul

    I agree. Think about everything in long term not in the now. I am having twins and my body is growing big every where but with hard work it will come back. I love my body but I love these little babies inside me more.

    #26834
    AvatarAnonymous

    all i can tell you is that when youwanted to keep your 1st baby you had a miscarrieg you got a 2nd chance, grab it with both hands! this might be the last child you ever had. if you have a great body now chances are u’ll have it after ur pregnancy aswell. believe me every stretch mark or better than people who are going to be upset. oyr plans arent always God’s! & ur mom & dad might be upset now bt a little bundle of joy changes everything. my mom was dissapointed but she allowed me to keep her & now she is my moms pride & joy. think carefully dont do something that u gonna regret the rest of ur life!

    #26924
    Avatarmm31910

    Wow… you are all soooo young. You all have sooo much life to live yet. While I would never judge anyone for being a teen mother, I must say it is such a huge and life-changing decision. There are a lot of variables that go along with having a child. I hope none of you feel pressured to have an abortion. As someone who is ttc, I can not stand the thought of someone willingly ending a child’s life before they even get to live it. Just remember that there are so many options out there. I really think you need to go and get a test anyway. If you wait, the damage to your unborn child could be great due to inadequate prenatal care.

    #27080
    Avatarnilly_ox

    #27095
    AvatarLooneyToonChula13

    Hi…your boyfriend sounds a lot like mine…haha im not pregnant but i know what its like to be in your situation…email me we should talk

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