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March 12, 2005 at 7:16 am #6977Anonymous
I am 15 and pregnant by a blk guy I love to death but he is 18.I am 11 wks and scared I am already trying to get my mom to get custody but of her past I dont know whether she will or not. My dad is racis and i need help please help me…………March 12, 2005 at 11:17 am #6981Anonymous
I am 17 years old and pregnant by a blk guy… but my parents want me to have this child and then take it from me… refusing to tell it that im its mother and instead raise it like im its sister. At the same time the blk guy dumped me because he may not actually be the father but most likely only one other option. They are both 24 years old and insist they both pay for the abortion. I have no clue what to do b cuz i rarely talk to eithe rone of them. On top of that I havent even been to the doctor yet and im already begining to show. My parents also constantly fight (like my whole life though this is my step mother now instead of my real mother). My real mom doesnt even know yet. I dont want my child to be raised in this kind of home like I was. What do I do? I dont know.. but girl my dad is somewhat racist too and im telling you… dont get down. Hold your head high and dont let this guy get you down. Im tellin you they will say everything they have to say to get a girl to belive them and I thought my guy loved me too and then he turns around and leaves me. We need to be strong okay? Im sure your a lot like me and have a lot of love. Well put that love into some good use and start to think about your baby more than the love you have for your 18 year old boyfriend. Im just trying to put some perspective into it and not get you down so dont feel bad okay? I love all you ladies out there who have problems just like us so keep your heads up! Im still having trouble too so lets all get together and give eachother a big hug! :laugh:March 12, 2005 at 2:06 pm #6983Anonymous
yea for you heather! you guys both just hang in there. there are are a lot of options for girls your age to get assitance. you’ll make it 🙂March 21, 2005 at 3:48 am #7042Anonymous
All of my children are biracial, and my father was also "racist" before I had my kids. I learned that he wasn’t trying to be hateful, only scared of what he did not know. He was raised a certain way, and had to find it within himself to accept his grandkids for who they are. Once my babies arrieved, he realized that they too were as innocent as a white child, or any other for that matter, and now that they are older, the thought of them being biracial doesnt cross his mind. My kids are who they are because of their mother and father.
You have to stand firms in your beliefs, not your parents. I dont look at my kids as "biracial", only that they are my kids. Let others think what they want. You have to find the strengh within yourself to stand up for what you feel is right! Children ar a gift from God. White, black, or both!March 21, 2005 at 1:21 pm #7044Anonymous
Well I know that it maybe very scary right now to think that there is so little that you can do. I am sure that you really want your mother to help you out and it seems like your father won’t. Well I am 18 years old and 3 1/2 months preg. trust me when I say that you should pray.And stay very strong everything will work itself out because if it wasn’t meant for you to bring that child into the world then you wouldn’t have it. The best thing that I can say do is love yourself your body your boyfriend/ friend and love your baby as it grows. You and your baby will be fine I promise you that.March 27, 2005 at 1:35 am #7110Anonymous
I am 19 and pregnant by a black guy – who is 21 and my fiance. My father is a racist, too, as is one of my brothers.
Fortunately for me, I’m one of those people who don’t care. The way it is is this, THOSE WHO TRULY CARE WILL DO NOTHING TO HARM YOUR BABY! And once that baby is born, you will see they will change their minds. Luckily for me, my fiance has been here throughout it all, from the very start. We have been together one year, and we didn’t expect this pregnancy – but all pregnancies are blessings.
Hold your heads up! And keep in mind, you will be having BEAUTIFUL children. Biracial kids are the most beautiful kids I’ve ever seen. Be strong. Not only for yourself, but for your unborn child. You need to show your families the way. In the end, you’ll see it was all worth it.
Do EVERYTHING you can to keep your babies….don’t let anyone take them from you!March 28, 2005 at 1:49 am #7114Anonymous
[b]WELL I AM 17 AND PREGNANT BY MY BOYFRIEND OF 4 MONTHS…I AM 4 WEEKS AND 2 DAYS AND I AM NAUSEUOS CONSTANTLY BUT THE THING THAT HELPS STOP IT IS LEMON AND GINGER ALE ..BEST SECRET KNOWN TO WOMAN …I HAVENT ACTUALLY THROWN UP YET AND I AM CONSISTENTLY PRAYING THAT I DONT… I HATE THE FEELING …BUT I WAS HAVING FIGHTS WITH MY FATHER ABOUT WHETHER TO ABORT THE BABY OR KEEP IT AND I SAY I KEEP IT AND HE OF COURSE IS THE OPPOSITE..I AM SO SURE THAT ABORTION IS MURDER THAT THE SUN IS YELLOW…BUT I BELIEVE THAT I AM OLD ENOUGH TO CARE FOR MY CHILD ON MY OWN …MY MOTHER DIED THE DAY I HAD MISSED MY PERIOD AND ISNT GOD ALWAYS ON TIME.. I LOSE MY MOTHER AND WITHIN THE WINKING OF AN EYE I AM ONE ….I THANK GOD EVERYDAY FOR THE LIFE WITHIN ME AND I WOULD NEVER CONSIDER MY CHILD A BURDENApril 12, 2005 at 5:59 pm #7351Anonymous
Its ok i’m biracal and my grandparents didnt talk 2 me half my life cuz they were "racist" i had 2 go se her so she would understand that just because i’m half black doesnt mean anything. i’ts just a color she put my mom out her house when she found out she was pregnant by a black guy it’s fun being both cuz u have a big family on both sides and u always have pretty hair and eyes i love being biracal u get 2 see things from both sides and biracal babys are so pretty u have 2 see when u have your baby keep it it should b apart of your family no matter what black&white or just white it doesnt matter,
*Good luck* ~poohbear8~ 😉 B) 😛 :laugh:April 18, 2005 at 8:40 am #7423Anonymous
hey- i am also pregnant by a blk guy, and every one around me is racist, who cares, what they think, at your age though, you might be caught in some parental issues, i mean what can you do about it except pray about it, and if i am not mistaken, when you have a baby, you are automatically emancipated, and are able to make your own desisions for your baby, as long as no one can say you are unfit, and that has to be proven, you can take care of your own baby, you will see that as a mothe you grow up very quick, and your baby is really all that matters, you can do it, i was a teenage mom, and i have gone far, without my parents, and without a baby daddy around, you can too i am here if you should need advice,
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