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What Do I Do?????

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12 years 1 month ago #1 by angelbigurl19
angelbigurl19 replied the topic: Re:What Do I Do?????
dont have an abortion because you will regret it for the rest of your life . killing an innocent life isnt right at all so plz let the baby live.

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12 years 1 month ago #2 by Stevie
Stevie replied the topic: Re:What Do I Do?????
At nine weeks is when the child is considered to be in the fetal stage, and is therefore a baby, but even before that the heart starts beating, so I don't know why your mother would think that.

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12 years 1 month ago #3 by Kez
Kez replied the topic: Re:Thanks Kate
Hi Shevon, I just want to let you know that i am really proud of you. It takes such courage to stand up to people, but most especially your mother. Let her know how you feel, and most especially let her know that she will be a grandmother. Maybe she will kick you out but there are so many places that you can go for help and support. The effects of an abortion are horrible, maybe show your mother some of the stories her on Stand Up Girl about girls who have been forced into having abortions, and how they still suffer today because of it. I pray that the Lord keeps you safe, gives you courage, and most of all works to help your mother ealise that this is a child of God. We are all here to listen and talk to if you need a \"virtual\" hug. Godd luck sweetie!

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12 years 1 month ago #4 by Kit
Kit replied the topic: Re:Thanks Kate
Shevon,

I was wondering how you were doing. I hadn't heard from you in a while. I'm glad that you have decided to have this little baby. I know it made things seem more tangible and real when I finally got to see an ultrasound of my son at 18 weeks. I still hope and pray that your mom will change her mind and become more supportive, but that doesn't sound likely. Was your mom there when you had the ultrasound? How did she react? Look for as many sources of outside help as possible. I know how lonely and scary this time is for you, but God is definitely on your side. If you ever need a friend to listen I am here. Good luck.

Kate

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12 years 1 month ago #5 by shevon
shevon replied the topic: Re:Thanks Kate
Im 15 yrs old. My mam took me to the hospital because she wanted me to have an abortion but i wanted to know more about, obviously since im against it. The doctor finally convinced me it was for the best...until she done an ultrasound and found out im 14 weeks pregnant. I was pushing myself doing it already but now the baby is fully formed all it needs to do now is grow. My mams at work at the moment but when she comes in ill have to tell her im keeping this baby. I'll have to move out and dont know where im going to go but god is on my side and he'll show me the way.

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12 years 2 months ago #6 by Denise
Denise replied the topic: Re:Thanks Kate
Shevon,
I am sorry to hear how your mother reacted. I am just curious how old you are. Maybe this is what is causing the problem for her.

There are people that will help you. Look to see if there is a Crisis Pregnancy Center in your area. My daughter is expecting also. We are in Texas and contacted the Crisis Center here. They will help you with maternity clothes, diapers,formula, counseling, childbirth classes. etc. They also will help you get signed up for Medicaid if needed.

You have to make the decision that is right for you. You are the only one that will have to live with it for the rest of your life.

Sometimes you have to walk away and eventually that person may come to their senses. The last thing you need right now is the added stress of your own family not helping you with this situation.

Yes...God is on your side. Talk with him and he will help you to make the right decision.

Good Luck and hang in there.

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