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sex and period

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8 years 8 months ago #1 by MissKirsty
MissKirsty replied the topic: Re:sex and period
have you taken the test yet?

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8 years 8 months ago #2 by Fizze
Fizze replied the topic: Re:sex and period
Thanks for all the advice ......I'm 18yrs old allergic to condoms and hate birth control cause it makes me emotional there's. No prob with STD cause I've been checked and my bf is or was a virgin all take a r
Test when it's time I already bought Ione thanks

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8 years 8 months ago #3 by emeraldforest//myheartbro
emeraldforest//myheartbro replied the topic: Re:sex and period
Hi My name is Enya,

I agree with Meg and Eva, if you are not ready to face the consequences of sex before marriage then you shouldnt be having it. I am now 16 and had sex for the first time when i was 14.. To this day i regret giving my body up to someone who was not my husband. I feel cheated out of alot of things, like a proper honeymoon and being able to feel proud of wearing white on my wedding day.

My boyfriend at present is so amazing, we love eachother very much, and so if i did not wait til marriage i wish that i had waited for him. I was his first, and i could not return that precious gift to him.

I feel like one of those toys who's package has been dented and so it is put on the discount rack with "50% off" stamped on it. I feel ashamed that I did not have someone to tell me to wait.. So please, I am not trying to preach, but if you are not prepared to deal with the consequences of premarital sex, then my best advice to you is to abstain.

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8 years 8 months ago #4 by Evangeline
Evangeline replied the topic: Re:sex and period
Stress, change in diet or environment and medication can cause you to have an irregular period.
The pull out method is NOT contraception and is NOT 100% fool proof. There's always a chance of falling pregnant if you have unprotected sex and the probibility of pregnancy is increased when you aren't using any contraception.

And please, don't sound so smug about not using protection or abstaining from sex... you wouldn't be asking this question of you'd used either of those options. I'd advise you to take an hpt asap and then not have sex untill you're emotionally ready and mature enough to take proper precautions.

E xoxox

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8 years 8 months ago #5 by Meg11
Meg11 replied the topic: Re:sex and period
Yes there is a chance you could be pregnant. Anytime you have sex or exchange bodily fluids with the presence of sperm you can become pregnant. The best thing to do is to at least not have sex until you start your period or are late. If you start your period and it is normal then chances are you are not pregnant. If you are late then take a test first thing in the am, if it is negative and you still don't start then wait a week and retest. If all else fails go to your doctor and get a blood test. I am not going to tell you to use protection mainly because it is a false sense of protection anyways and also because you are not married. I am however going to tell you that if you do not want to be told to not have sex then you should get married. In all honesty what answer would best fit you? I mean if you do not want to get pregnant and you don't want to be told to use protection or to not have sex then what do you want people to tell you...jump 3 times spin around and snap your fingers then tell your fairy god mother that you don't want to be pregnant? Sorry to be so sarcastic but if you do not want to get pregnant, and if you are not married then you really shouldn't want to, then you need to be willing to hear the real way to not get pregnant, not having sex. Now to the what can cause an irregular period...have your periods ever been regular and if so how long have they been regular? Is the irregularity recent? It can be caused by change in diet or exercise, stress, and depending on how old you are it can be regular hormone changes or fluctuations. Here is the number to a place that can help you with a FREE and CONFIDENTIAL test. 1-800-395-HELP, Optionline will give you the number and location to the closest pregnancy resource center to you where they will give you advice appropriate to the answer of your test...like I said sorry to be sarcastic, that is kind of my personality, I hope this helped at least a little bit...Love Meg

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8 years 8 months ago #6 by Fizze
Fizze created the topic: sex and period
okay so I have a few questions 1st off

what can cause a irregular period?( me and my bf have been having tones of unprotected sex lately but we been using the pull out method.
well my period was suppose to start on the 6th and didn't start tell the 11th of February and well the first two days were normal then the 3rd day there was barley any blood at all. my periods are always 7 days long and dont get light tell about the 5th day?
2nd( ok well me and my bf heard that you can not get pregnant on your period so we had sex on the 15th which he did not finish and the 16th he ejaculated in me about four times. what are the chances of pregnancy??

and last ok so today which is the 19th here we had unprotected sex and he pulled out and ejaculated on himself and then we stuck it back in within seconds like 10 seconds(is the sperm dead or was it still alive)

i would really like to know..... btw dont tell me to use protection and not to have sex those are not the answers i need

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