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I don't know if I am or not, but if I am...Advice?

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9 years 1 week ago #1 by MissKirsty
MissKirsty replied the topic: Re:I don't know if I am or not, but if I am...Advice?
If you got even one HPT that said that you are pregnant than I would say that it is %99.9 sure that you are pregnant.
I am glad that you don't want to get an abortion and that your fiance is not pushing you to get one.
The thing is, you really can still have your future with a baby. And if you don't think that you can handle a baby, put up with 9 months of pregnancy and then give it up for adoption.
You are definitely in a difficult position, but I know that you can do it!
Keep us updated, ok?

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9 years 1 week ago #2 by emerald_aradia
emerald_aradia created the topic: I don't know if I am or not, but if I am...Advice?
Okay, I don't even know how to begin this, really. There's a lot to say about the whole thing.
I guess I should say that I'm not even really sure if I am pregnant or not, but as each day goes by I'm more and more positive that I am. I took two pregnancy tests before, but the answers were both different. I've been going through the symptons too. However, it's only been a month since I last had sex and my period is only off by a week-ish. So I don't know.
But again, I'm really afraid that I am.
I'm 17 and I'm in college. I have, and I'm not saying this to be arrogant but to simply stress the point, the brightest future of anyone I know. I graduated high school early as one of the top five students in my class. I'm graduating university early and I have solid A's in all my classes. I'm in a great university, from which I'll get a dual degree (accredited by both the US and the UK) for a double major in International Relations and Economics.
And I think I'm pregnant.
Now, I guess I should mention that I had an abortion when I was 11, and I don't regret it a bit. But that was because I was raped and simply too young. And besides the people who helped me get the abortion, I never told a single person about it besides my fiance.
But I can't get an abortion this time, I couldn't live with myself. As much as I don't want to have a child yet, I can't. My fiance and I are both against it personally, though we're pro-choice politically. I know he won't leave me or anything like that, though he isn't anymore thrilled at being a parent yet than I am.
But I can't be pregnant right now. I just keep thinking about how unfair it is, even though I know it's irrational. We were so careful, I never left around, I was just planning on getting an IUD this week. I guess I'm just scared and don't know what to do.

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