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9 years 1 month ago #1 by Merla
Merla replied the topic: Re:if you decide for me i will like you.....Alot
The decision to keep this baby will be one that you will most likely never regret. There may be times in your life when you will look back and gone "oh I wish I had been older" or "I wish I had got to do this" but I can garentee you that you will never look back and go "I wish my son/daughter had never been born".

Having an abortion is a decision that you WILL regret every day of you life, you will remember this baby as long as you live, trust me. Its a physically and emotionally painful procedure, and no good comes out of it. If you are prepared to go through the pain, than I urge you to carry this baby to term and then look at the adoption path if it is something that you still dont want.

A baby is a gift hun, and this one is yours. This baby growing in you is your son or daughter, they need you just like you needed your mum to live and grow, and they trust you with their life. Please dont betray the innocent trust of you child, its a decision that you will never forgive yourself for.

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9 years 1 month ago #2 by Autumn
Autumn replied the topic: Re:if you decide for me i will like you.....Alot
Abortion is not the answer. Think about that little baby who needs you to choose the right choice for him/her that is growing inside of you as we speak. Motherhood is highly challenging, but very rewarding. Remember that.

I am 15 and pregnant... and I'm doing it! I'm keeping my little man and I will have an amazing future with him, his father, and a STABLE career. It'll be hard work... but it's so worth the rewards you get. I already get them. :)

Let us know how things turn out!

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9 years 1 month ago #3 by babygirl0322
babygirl0322 replied the topic: Re:if you decide for me i will like you.....Alot
Well, I'm 16 with an almost 1 year old baby girl and I can tell you from experience that it is the best feeling in the whole world. You will regret aborting your baby for life and I can tell you how much I don't want you to, but that won't make a difference unless you really take in to consideration that this is a person inside you and him/her will look up to you one day for giving them life. Do what you feel is right.

Much love,
Callie and Camber.

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9 years 1 month ago #4 by MissKirsty
MissKirsty replied the topic: Re:if you decide for me i will like you.....Alot
Hey!
Welcome to the site! :-)

Go online and research the type of abortion that you are thinking about having.
Abortion is painful. It will be physically painful when your body gets rid of the baby, it will be painful to the baby, and it will be emotionally excruciating later.

Think about it, if you have the abortion now and no one finds out. You will wake up every morning knowing that your belly no longer holds the little life you conceived. You will wonder what color eyes your baby would have, you will never get to see it's first smile or hear the first happy gurgling sounds it would make. You will never get to run your hand gently over it's little head or kiss it's cute little lips.
You will feel all of the guilt of having killed your own flesh and blood. Even if everything goes off without a hitch and you are able to have children later you will look at them and wonder what your first baby would have looked like. You will think about it EVERY DAY!!!

But if you decide to have the baby you can still finish school. If you give the baby up for adoption you can have a normal teenage life.
Please think about it.

Hugs!

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9 years 1 month ago #5 by nadza
nadza replied the topic: Re:if you decide for me i will like you.....Alot
plz dont abort, u will regret it 4eva... if u feel u cannot handle a baby giv him/her up 4 adoption, they deserve life! but im sure u will manage bein a mom its the most rewardin xperience

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9 years 1 month ago #6 by jessey223
jessey223 replied the topic: Re:if you decide for me i will like you.....Alot
No one can make the choice for you.....think long and hard about it. An abortion will most likely leave you very emotionally hurt. It is a very hard thing to go thru physically and emotionally. And having a baby is a life long commitment. I have done both an abortion at 16 and had a baby at 18. I would not change it for the world both have made me the person I am today. Anyone can raise a child and make a life for them. If you put your mind to it that child could have a life just like a child born to parents in their late 20's. This is something you have to live with so think long and hard. Kids are great and there is nothing in this world like raising them. :) I wish you the best of luck no matter what you decide to do. Jessica

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