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I dont know what to do..

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9 years 8 months ago #1 by kez_mummy_2_skye
kez_mummy_2_skye replied the topic: Re:I dont know what to do..
I think for the sake of you and your hubbys relationship you can and need to have this baby. If he doesnt want you to do it dont. You have him there too. Family is more important than career.
Don't go to 'that' place please.

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9 years 8 months ago #2 by MyZombieHeart
MyZombieHeart replied the topic: Re:I dont know what to do..
I'm not going to sit here and tell you what you should and should not do. The only thing I can do is offer my advice.

I had an abortion about a year and a half ago, and it destroyed me from the inside out. Physically, it's the most severe pain you can ever be in, not to mention the entire procedure itself was the most demeaning thing I had ever gone thru. Mentally, I fell into a deep depression, sought solace in drugs, and attempted suicide numerous times. I rarely feel like myself, and even after a year and a half, still feel like a piece is missing from me.

I'm nineteen, a broke college student, unmarried.
You're definitely going to be able to continue your education, and who knows? motherhood may teach you some things you can use in nursing! Look into daycare programs you college might offer, see if there are classes you can do over the internet from home.

But when It really comes down to it, it's YOUR decision, not your husbands.

I hope you make the choice that is right for YOU.

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9 years 8 months ago #3 by princess Angela
princess Angela replied the topic: Re:I dont know what to do..
Seriously.... I would say keep it but thats what i choose... The way i have looked at it is... I can do anything i set my mind to ... baby or no baby.... At least i will have purpose to do it now.... i hate my job atm but force myself to go to work because it will help my baby.... I am 21weeks now and this baby pretty much has everything he will need already.....

You can do it !!!
Love angela

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9 years 8 months ago #4 by winterishrain
winterishrain replied the topic: Re:I dont know what to do..
Hi,
Abortion is a tough decision and no one can make it for you. I was always swearing that I would have an abortion if I ever got pregnant, and here I am, in my second trimester happy as ever. I am still pro choice, but ask that you consider all options before you go through with it. also, make sure that it is your decision and you arn't being pressured by anyone else.
I know the issues with school, I graduated a year ago from my undergrad and am currently taking graduate classes. once the baby comes I know it will be 10 time harder, but I also know that the fact that it is the best chance for myself and my baby to not only survive but thrive will motivate me. '
good luck

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9 years 8 months ago #5 by ProudParent8.9.07
ProudParent8.9.07 replied the topic: Re:I dont know what to do..
Sweetheart it could always be worse. You could be in 10th grade 16, have a 7 month old, no babys daddy, and have a job. Like me. But I love my life. I work go to school and have to be a mother and a father to my child and it's the most amazing thing in the world. I still have a life. In all honesty, i have a better life. I love my son and I was told to get an abortion because no one supported me and I still went through with my pregnancy. You have support from your husband and your family, why would you even think about killing your child. It's a blessing and God gave you this child for a reason. But whatever you choose, I hope its right for you. Good Luck

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9 years 8 months ago #6 by wanna_be_a_momma
wanna_be_a_momma replied the topic: Re:I dont know what to do..
I got married 3 months before i turned 18 ( 6 months ago ) and i think i may very well be pregnant too. I stopped taking Birth control 2 months ago and we have done it most all the time unprotected and now my period is one day late.
I think you can do it. A girl never really knows for sure that shes ready to be a mother until it happens to you. I think that if you have an abortion you will regreat it and be sooo unhappy with your life. You will prob. find your-self wondering what he or she would have been like. Would he or she have look more like there daddy or there mommy or a little of both? It may be hard at times but it will be worth it ALL!!
I hope I have helped in someway and if you need someone to talk to let me know, K?

~Megan

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