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10 years 5 months ago #1 by Meg11
Meg11 replied the topic: Re:SOMEONE REPLY
I don' t know the percentage or likely hood of you being pregnant but I do want to remind you that the only form of birth control that is 100% effective is abstinence....call me old fashioned (I didn't used to be) but if you don't want a baby then please consider abstinence...you wont be putting yourself at risk for STD's or AIDS and you will never have a pregnancy scare....if you don't mind if you get pregnant then get married....if you love each other enough to sleep with each other and risk creating a child together then why not get married??? If you are not ready for marriage or you are not old enough then please take some time to re evaluate the relationship you are in...I lost my virginity at 13 and I continued a lifestyle of sex before marriage for 10 years....I ended up with two kids on my own and poor self esteem and major heartache....all of these things are better than AIDS though which I am soooo thankful I never contracted....it doesn't mean I couldn't have though....when I found out I was pregnant with my second I made the choice to remain abstinent until my wedding night...3 1/2 years later was that night and it was worth the wait...my husband wasn't marrying me because of how I was in bed...he didn't know what I was like in that way....he didn't marry me for my \"nice body\" I had had 2 kids...LOL....he didn't marry me for any outwardly thing or material thing or selfish reason....he married me because he loves me and the reason he was attracted to me was because of the way I presented myself....I dressed modestly and I didn't try to sleep with him....taking the time to get to know someone and committing to marriage without sex involved is a sure way to know that you have \"husband material\" if you are with a guy that won't take no for an answer and who wont respect and honor you the way you deserve to be then he is not \"husband material\" he is a guy who will move on when you get pregnant, or move on when someone else comes along with a nicer body or who is better in bed....don't risk putting yourself in the shoes of all of us who had kids before marriage one more day, don't risk feeling used and betrayed by guy after guy, don't risk dying the slow miserable death that AIDS carries....chose abstinence today...you will be happier and be more likely to attract the most wonderful man into your life...not some boy who has no idea of your great value and worth and just wants a piece of your body....if you miss your period take a test and let us all know what happens but regardless of the results you can choose abstinence....don't knock it till you try it....my wedding night was the best time in my life up to that point even though I had \"all the experience in the world\"....I hope you write back and let me know if this is a choice you will make...it is soooo worth the wait....Love Meg

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10 years 5 months ago #2 by Meg11
Meg11 replied the topic: Re:SOMEONE REPLY
I don' t know the percentage or likely hood of you being pregnant but I do want to remind you that the only form of birth control that is 100% effective is abstinence....call me old fashioned (I didn't used to be) but if you don't want a baby then please consider abstinence...you wont be putting yourself at risk for STD's or AIDS and you will never have a pregnancy scare....if you don't mind if you get pregnant then get married....if you love each other enough to sleep with each other and risk creating a child together then why not get married??? If you are not ready for marriage or you are not old enough then please take some time to re evaluate the relationship you are in...I lost my virginity at 13 and I continued a lifestyle of sex before marriage for 10 years....I ended up with two kids on my own and poor self esteem and major heartache....all of these things are better than AIDS though which I am soooo thankful I never contracted....it doesn't mean I couldn't have though....when I found out I was pregnant with my second I made the choice to remain abstinent until my wedding night...3 1/2 years later was that night and it was worth the wait...my husband wasn't marrying me because of how I was in bed...he didn't know what I was like in that way....he didn't marry me for my \"nice body\" I had had 2 kids...LOL....he didn't marry me for any outwardly thing or material thing or selfish reason....he married me because he loves me and the reason he was attracted to me was because of the way I presented myself....I dressed modestly and I didn't try to sleep with him....taking the time to get to know someone and committing to marriage without sex involved is a sure way to know that you have \"husband material\" if you are with a guy that won't take no for an answer and who wont respect and honor you the way you deserve to be then he is not \"husband material\" he is a guy who will move on when you get pregnant, or move on when someone else comes along with a nicer body or who is better in bed....don't risk putting yourself in the shoes of all of us who had kids before marriage one more day, don't risk feeling used and betrayed by guy after guy, don't risk dying the slow miserable death that AIDS carries....chose abstinence today...you will be happier and be more likely to attract the most wonderful man into your life...not some boy who has no idea of your great value and worth and just wants a piece of your body....if you miss your period take a test and let us all know what happens but regardless of the results you can choose abstinence....don't knock it till you try it....my wedding night was the best time in my life up to that point even though I had \"all the experience in the world\"....I hope you write back and let me know if this is a choice you will make...it is soooo worth the wait....Love Meg

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10 years 5 months ago #3 by chellychell
chellychell created the topic: SOMEONE REPLY
About two weeks ago me and my boyfriend had sex, but he didnt use a condom, and i dont know if im pregnant or not because i havent had any symptoms except going to the bathroom a lot. my boyfriend swears i am because he pulled out to late when he had already released in me a little. I dont know if i am or the percentages of me being pregnant.:S

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