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I need some advice

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12 years 7 months ago #1 by jasmine
jasmine replied the topic: am i pregnant
im 14 yrs old and my period only lasted for three days. i haven't taken a home test yet. should i take one. i had sex with my boyfriend but he didn't ejaculate. can still i be pregnant?

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12 years 7 months ago #2 by daisydazzed
daisydazzed replied the topic: Re:I need some advice
hey,

im only 15 but if i were you i wouldnt forgive this man if he lies to you he's not good enough for you you should tell his wife your situation and see what she says... abortion is not an opption its not the tiny baby growing inside you
that has lied to you babys are miracles and should never be killed by abortion there is alot of support out there fore single mothers so my advice to you is lose the guy and concentrate on the life you have inside you

Sincerely
4 months pregnant

ashley

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12 years 7 months ago #3 by Angie
Angie replied the topic: Re:I need some advice
Hi! Well my name is Angie and I think that I may be pregnant but I,m not sure because right when he was getting ready to come his mom come knocking at the door,but I heard that you can still come out pregnant because of his pre-come.Also we are having problems and took a time out because he was having baby mama drama with his ex and she told him that if she found out that he was deeing me that he can't see his boys.Please help me I don't know what to do and I think that it's to soon to find out if I'm pregnant because it's been only 10 days and we had sex 5 days before my period.




Thanks,
Angie

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12 years 7 months ago #4 by Cheryl
Cheryl replied the topic: Re:I need some advice
I was an unmarried mother of two children ( my son is 35 this year and my daughter is 27 years old ) I was hurt very deeply and had no faith in men for many years until I met my husband ( we have been married 17 years now) I wouldn't change what happened to me I Love my son and daughter so much and I am a grandmother as well my son has 3 children ( a girl and two little boys ) my daughter has a little boy. So try to look to the future your happiness is there. Forget this man he will only hurt you again any man who is not faithful to his marriage vows the first time will continue to hurt who ever he is with maybe for the rest of his life. I would not go to his poor wife it is not her fault, and his other children get hurt. Believe me there is a wonderful man out there who will love you and the beautiful life you have growing in your womb , you can do it , you can get through this . I will Pray for you and your little bubby God Bless .

Cheryl ( Mother and Grandmother ) from Australia

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12 years 7 months ago #5 by UMmom2b
UMmom2b replied the topic: Re:I need some advice
Hey!

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. I really hate it when guys don't take care of their responsibilities. Even though you might not want to hear this, you can have your baby without him. Like the saying goes \"you can do bad by yourself.\" You're pregnant by a married man, which is stressful enough, so you don't need the added stress of dealing with his crap. I hope that you have some family members or close friends that can help you with your pregnancy and raising your child. If you have any questions or you wanna talk just send me an e-mail. aprilnbeckley@yahoo.com. I'm pregnant too, so I can relate to that part. E-mail me, I would love to hear from you.

April

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12 years 7 months ago #6 by emma
emma replied the topic: Re:I need some advice
what a jerk! i do not think you should forgive him...what he did is unforgivable and no matter what happens you can never trust him. but that doesn't mean you can't have your baby. lots of single moms do it...i'm sure it can be hard (i'm on the verge of being a single mom and i'm scared too) but it can be very rewarding too. even though he betrayed you this is still your child. you have to make this choice for yourself but one thing is for sure...do not make any decisions you could regrett when you are upset and desperate!

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