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10 years 4 months ago #1 by mommy6
mommy6 replied the topic: Re:Boyfriend help.. please reply !
wellthats def a tough discuusion sorry for your loss i also had had a miscarrage at 15 weeks about 6 weeks ago.i know its hard to cope n you want another baby but i would wait a lil while n see if danny changes at all cause you ovbly., love him n want to work out your relonship but you def dont want to have a baby with a immature person cause if hes that im., than he isnt going to be able to cope with a baby wait n see tell him how you feel n that he needs to amke certain changes give him somethings to work at n see if he trys than if he does maybe than think about it if not im sorry to say but its ok to be with him but i wouldnt have a baby with him., good luck n if you ever need to talk you can email me mommy6

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10 years 4 months ago #2 by kmurph29
kmurph29 replied the topic: Re:Boyfriend help.. please reply !
although you may love him very much ur love for a baby will be ten times stronger. I really think that it would be a very bad idea to put a childs life into someones hand that you are not sure will step up. It is much better not to bring a child into a unsure situation if it can be prevented. Good luck with everything

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10 years 4 months ago #3 by parryface
parryface replied the topic: Re:Boyfriend help.. please reply !
i dont think you should try for a baby again so soon.you said you USED to be with a boy called danny,are ye not together anymore?im so sorry to hear you lost your baby but i think you are right in waiting for someone older and more mature who has the same priorities as you before you try for another little one.best of luck hun xxx

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10 years 4 months ago #4 by Jennie2007
Jennie2007 created the topic: Boyfriend help.. please reply !
Well how do i start...

i used to be in a relationship with a boy called Daniel... this is who the babys dad would have been but unfortunatly i lost the baby.

i love danny to bits but its just hard as he is an immature person for the age of 18.. when i lost the baby in a way i was pleased as i dont think he could handle the baby and i would be doing all the work in the relationship.. but in a way i think he might change and become more mature. i want to try for another baby, my heart and mind is set as i cannot handle the loss of this baby.. but do i try again with danny or do i move on and wait till im in a serios realationship??

danny may be immature but i do love him and i think the world of him, i would do anything for him.. absolutly anything its just can he handle it?

please reply and thanks for reading

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