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Abortion is not an option!!!

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11 years 8 months ago #1 by Jenn
Jenn replied the topic: Re:Abortion is not an option!!!
It is your body, and your decision, but I must caution you. I have had an abortion, about 4 years ago, and I still have not forgotten how awful it was. They heard you in like Cattle, and treat you like crap! I still cry to even think about it, and although it is terrible that you don't have more support from your parents, please just consider what you really want. I know it's scary, and hard, (I was there too), but it will pass. My friend scheduled an abortion about 7 months ago, and was so scared, she walked out. Now, she has a beautiful baby girl and she is SO happy that she didn't go through with it! I regret my decision every day of my life, and will never ever forgive myself for what I've done, but I have learned from my mistake, and hopefully this has given you some insight at both ends of the spectrum. Good luck sweetie! Jenn

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11 years 8 months ago #2 by mixedcutie
mixedcutie replied the topic: Re:Abortion is not an option!!!
Girl, I cant say I understand what your going through cuz im not in that situation. But im going to hopefully give you some good advice that will make you think.
First of all... You cant live your life for nobody else. You have to do what you know is right in your heart. Your the one that has to look yourself in the mirror everyday. I dnt know what your faith is, or if you believe in god... but you should definitly pray on it. Dont begin to play God and decide who will live and who will die.
You may not be ready for this child....but he/she is counting on you. You do know that when you get an abortion you are murdering a human being right? This human could eventually grow up to be a loving mother or father, doctor, lawyer, or whatever. I dnt know if your considering abortion or not but just think about that. Your paying someone to put a price on your baby and kill it.
As for your parents, if they truely love you they will support you no matter what. Here are some websites that you should visit:
http://www.religioustolerance.org/abortion1.htm
http://www.abortionno.org/resources/pictures.html

By the way...Im not trying to pass judgement on you, and you will be in my prayers Shannon

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12 years 3 months ago #3 by Shannon
Shannon replied the topic: Re:Abortion is not an option!!!
Im 16 and I may be pregnant and Im scared, I know that I don't want to kill it, its a part of me and I know god will help me take care of it, but my parents are forcing me to get one and are not being supportive at all, and my BF claims he isn't ready and neither am I, but i didn't lay myself down. But i need help on what I should do, about my parents. :unsure:

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12 years 3 months ago #4 by JBurks7819
JBurks7819 replied the topic: Re:Abortion is not an option!!!
Amen!! I am glad someone said it!! There re so many women that are not ablr to carry a baby full term or can not have them at all. Like me I lost my baby at in the first trimester, if i coud bring him/her back I would. Do not kill you baby,

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12 years 3 months ago #5 by crystal
crystal replied the topic: Re:Abortion is not an option!!!
Dont kill your baby! You will regret it for the rest of your life. There are too many people out there that cant have children that would be willing to take it.

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12 years 3 months ago #6 by momof4
momof4 replied the topic: Re:Abortion is not an option!!!
Okay, so your considering abortion? Have you done the research? Do you know HOW the abortion is performed? And here is the kicker, 10 years from now (heck a year from now) would you rather look back on your life and say \"I loved my baby, therefore I gave him life and into the arms of loving parents, or \"I selfishly ended my baby's life\" The pain of abortion NEVER goes away, the pain of giving up for adoption never goes away either but the thoughts of joy in some couples face who can not have children has the possibility of easing that pain! This obviously is a choice that you and only you can make, but I ask that you pray about it and think ahead! Don't just think of tomorrow, because the pain will be there YEARS from now!

I have gotten the impression this site is for JOYOUS reasons! I am a survivor of teenage pregnancy, I have a wonderful daughter and have had a very successfull life having three other children. But I would have LOVED to give my husband the most valuable gift you could ever give a man..VIRGINITY! This is the ONLY regret I have. To those of you considering having a child as a teen (actually PLANNING it), please seek someone to talk to! Gain focus on your life! Value your body, get some goals, the best gift you could give your kids is a stable family and an educated occupation!

I hope I don't offend anyone by this message, but I do hope I change some thoughts, and spark some interest in abortion research and the alternatives!! There are people who care out there!!

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