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I have a question?????? (long)

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10 years 8 months ago #1 by gina lynn
gina lynn replied the topic: Re:I have a question?????? (long)
regaurdless of the situation, i think you should keep the baby if you are pregnant. no it wont be easy, but trust me you wont regret it. a baby is such a blessing, it will change your life for the good, and if this guy is any kind of man, he will support you in your decision. if he doesnt, then thats his loss. most importantly you should pray, that will help you get through any situation.

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10 years 8 months ago #2 by toshia
toshia replied the topic: Re:I have a question?????? (long)
I think that you and he forst off need to talk about this. he needs to know the responibilities of a child has. ejaculating in you just for fun or b/c it feels good is not right. theres always a chance of getting pregnant when you are having sex so if you do get pregnant you have to decide weather you will be a fir mother or not....and always remember that weather its a fetus or embryo it had a little heart and that little heart was ment to beat! don't always turn to abortion...there is always adoption!!

goodluck xo

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10 years 8 months ago #3 by Meg11
Meg11 replied the topic: Re:I have a question?????? (long)
Well if you are pregnant I would strongly urge you to keep the baby. A child will change the way you live think and feel about yourself. Stand strong and dont be moved on your decision to keep it no matter what. If you are not pregnant please stop putting yourself into situations that could get you pregnant. I have two kids , after my second pregnancy ( Iwas alone both times 2 dads) I commited to waiting till marriage to have sex again. well after almost 3 years I had sex on my wedding night and it was amazing :) There is so much blessing and if I find out that I am pregnant I have no fear of what the father will say because he loves me enough to have respected my body and waited for me to be his wife. You deserve so much better than to give yourself to a man that wont commit to you :) I hope all goes well.....God Bless

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10 years 8 months ago #4 by MrsTWalsh
MrsTWalsh replied the topic: Re:I have a question?????? (long)
I agree. If you are not pregnant you guys should be more careful if he's you EX. Generally there are only a few days you can get pregnant out of a month, so do you know where you were in your cycle? That will have alot to do with it.Good luck, hon!

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10 years 8 months ago #5 by pixie_sc300
pixie_sc300 replied the topic: Re:I have a question?????? (long)
annalove wrote:

Wow, that's a tough situation...it's hard because a baby can bring a family closer together, or tear them apart. I would wait to see if you really are pregnant, first. Then, carefully consider all of your options. Talk it over with him, and your family. And good luck!

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10 years 9 months ago #6 by lisa
lisa replied the topic: Re:I have a question?????? (long)
Hiiiiiiiiiii - I'm Lisa and I am from the Stand Up Girl website. Ohhhh when I saw your e-mail and the dilemma that you are in, my heart so went out to you ... I just had to write to you.

I saw the comment that you made to your ex about it 'not being the babys' fault and you are so so so right! You know what abortion does to your heart. Please remember that baby that is inside of you is alive. Living, breathing, moving and more. Did you know that at 6 weeks your baby can suck his/her thumb? Yesssssssss isn't that amazing.

Can I just share with you that I have been down that road of abortion twice also. Ohhh please know that you have a chance now to give a baby life. I am now not able to have children. Abortion ruined my insides and so I can't give life ever again. I long for those lost babies and if I could turn back the hands of time and change what I've done ... I would.

But you have life right in your very hands. Something that so many of us on this site long to have. Please please remember that your baby is a completely whole person - apart from your ex. Your baby does not need your ex to live a satisfactory life. Please don't abort your beautiful baby just to please someone else. It will just put you into a prison of further torment.

I would love to see you feel at peace about choosing life. I think sometimes we just need someone to support our decision. Someone to say \"Girrrl! You can do this!\" And I totally believe in you. I think that you can do this. I say this a lot but it's so true \"It's not always easy being a Stand Up Girl, BUT it's always worth it!

Please ... this is your baby and your baby depends on YOU for his/her very life right now.

One last thing - can I show you an absolutely amazing photo? It is my most favorite and it shows the reality of a baby and how they are so formed at so young. OK?

Check it out:

http://www.pregnantpause.org/develop/minne.htm

Isn't that amazing!

Please, keep us posted. Let us know how you are.

OK?

Luv Lisa

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