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help me please

  • jsaunders
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12 years 4 months ago #1 by jsaunders
jsaunders replied the topic: Re:help me please
First, you need to take a pregnancy test and find out for sure. Second, if you are, you need to tell someone that you trust and who loves you. If you are pregnant you will need someone to help you be strong. You can't go through this alone. Third, please consider having this baby if you are pregnant. I am a woman in her thirties who had an abortion almost 10 years ago and it still haunts me to this day. I can literally make myself sick thinking about the precious little life I destroyed. Thankfully, God blessed me with a son and I keep asking him why when I feel so undeserving because of what I did. Abortion seems like the easy way out when, in reality, it is living the rest of your life in guilt and shame and deep regret. TRUST ME - you can't even imagine the pain you will feel in your heart and it will never go away. Good luck and be strong!!!!

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12 years 4 months ago #2 by caralh515
caralh515 replied the topic: Re:help me please
it is possible that you could be pregnant the best thing that you could do though is just take a pregnancy test. if you dont have a friend that can drive and help you get one than talk to your school nurse, it might be a little embarresing to talk about but a lot of school nurses have home pregnancy tests that you can take. If you period is that late and you havent had one for May than either you are pregnant or something else is going on with your body that needs to be checked out. It souds like you might have some pregnancy symptoms. so I would def. test with a home pregnancy test like EPT
As for not being ready to settle down and have kids, very rarely does a young person feel like they are but you have may have created a life and that means you are an adult now wether you like it or not and have some decisions to make. it is hard to be a young parent, i struggle at it but I love my son....if parenting isnt right for you quite yet there are many couples out there that are waiting for a child b/c they cant have their own.
Best of luck!

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12 years 4 months ago #3 by angel
angel created the topic: help me please
my name is April i prefer Angel.I have this gut feelin that i may be pregnant i'm only 15 and if i am my grandparents will filp out on me and my boyfriend my last period was April 6th to the 8th its usually the 1st to the 4th or 5th, my brests are really sore i've been peeing ALOT, i've been feelin like i'm going to vomit alot i've been getting crazy mood swings my friend says i'm just over-reacting but i am so scared i don't know what to do my boyfriend is really scared too we are not ready to settle down with kids this soon! please can someone help us out and tell us if you think i may be pregnant....thank you

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