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WAT AM I SUPOSSED TO DO???

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7 years 5 months ago #1 by nikkibabey1995
nikkibabey1995 replied the topic: Re:WAT AM I SUPOSSED TO DO???
i understand how you feel you guys will adventually have to tell your parents you guys are so young although im 15 myself and don't know if im pregnant or not its possible as a girl i would want the father to always be by my side just tell her you will always be there for her and you wouldnt realize how much she will appreciate it! good luck.

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9 years 7 months ago #2 by rainman
rainman replied the topic: Re:Help her
You need to search for the answers that you can deal with. My suggestion is search out information on all choices, and then look at what you and your girl friend can do. The real options are abortion parenting and adoption. Seek information on all of these things, and then really look at how you feel about each choice.

Abortion seems easy, but the psychological aspects can effect some people. There are many sights about this on the negative psychological effects, and I am sure there are many people who can walk away from this choice.

Parenting is the long choice, and the hard choice, but for many it is the only choice, because they cannot bring themselves to abort or give up their child.

Adoption is the last thing most people look at. Look for information on what modern adoption is like, and know that many people can't do this either. It is just too hard for them to know someone else is raising their child.

Look for facts not theories and what others have heard look to people who know about each choice, and then make your decision. If you need anything I think anyone here would be willing to help.

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9 years 7 months ago #3 by insubordinateximpx09
insubordinateximpx09 replied the topic: Re:WAT AM I SUPOSSED TO DO???
right now i can guarantee that you are helping out just by being there...remember, your girlfriend is going to be really scared too and helping her out and supporting her is the probably going to make the most difference...realize it's going to be hard, but getting through this together will help bring you guys closer...telling your parents will be hard, but they often will come around and help out, since this is their grandchild afterall...just keep holding on, everything will work out like its supposed to.

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10 years 1 week ago #4 by randomchyck220
randomchyck220 replied the topic: Re:Help her
If you need help telling your parents, talk to a school counsuelor first, they can help you work out your emotions so you know the right things to say. My counsuelor told me that i cant control the reactions of my parents when i was thinking of how they would react. My parents reacted just the way i thought they would, very angry and misunderstanding of my beliefs. But I'm staying strong rite now and thats wut matters.

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10 years 7 months ago #5 by babybautista
babybautista replied the topic: Re:WAT AM I SUPOSSED TO DO???
hi my name is sandra and i would like to help if that is ok with you,,,,,
i know u might be scared but dont let that stop u from doing what is right, if u truly and honestly love your girl like u say u do because either way no matter what u decide the baby is still going to be born,,,,stay with her help her because u are both young and without eachother you really have no one else who will trully understand,,,,if u havent already please tell someone, i know tha may seem like a scary thing to do but if u do plan on keeping the child,they will find out sooner ot later so why not get help sooner??? hope i helped believe me i know where u are coming from im only 15 and im going to have a baby too

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10 years 7 months ago #6 by Suzy_n_Chris
Suzy_n_Chris replied the topic: Re:WAT AM I SUPOSSED TO DO???
I must agree with the other, you deserve props for being there for her, you both made a decision to do this. Deffinatly talk to both your parents, see what they think is the best for you both. Legally she doesn't have to get an abortion just because her parents say so. From 12 on the baby mama has the choice. If the parents don't want to help you raise the baby, look into open adoption so you can see the baby as much as possible but you have given up custody.

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