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Premature Girls Wanting Babies

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9 years 2 months ago #1 by Gabriella_89
Gabriella_89 replied the topic: Re:Premature Girls Wanting Babies
I dont understand why women who arent in stable relationships want babies, and i dont really get why some think that its a good idea to have sex with random people just to get a baby, because in all honesty i think thats really really really dumb (but those are the kind of girls that make Maury interesting LOL)

anyways my first 2 children werent planned i made the choice to have unprotected sex with a cheater, loser immature stupid guy. It was a bad choice but i have 2 beautiful children because of bad choices so i dont regret that.

anyways my third child was planned, we tried for over a year to have her, yes i was 17, but i was engaged, i was in a good place, with a good guy with a good job, supporting myself and my children. Some women just have this maternal urge, its pretty normal, im sure a lot more young women have this desire to have children and be a mother, but they dont want to do it just yet. I would say its totally normal though, girls grow up playing house and being told they will be mommies.....

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9 years 7 months ago #2 by winterishrain
winterishrain replied the topic: Re:Premature Girls Wanting Babies
hey. I understand your point, but can I please remind you that it takes two to make a baby and that if you didn't want one, you could have ( and probly should have) protected yourself as well. I'm sorry, but it doesn't sit right with me when you say that you impregnanted a woman and then call her crazy for wanting to keep her baby. Wanting to keep a baby, no matter what age, is a woman's instinct, (and in my opinion the right thing to do) whether she planned on being pregnant or not. I'm in a similar situation, the guy acctually told me I was crazy for being pregnant, and it's not like I did it to myself. The process is 50/50.

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9 years 11 months ago #3 by rocky51
rocky51 replied the topic: Re:Premature Girls Wanting Babies
yah i think ALL girls get urges like that...and some are just more open about it and actually say yah i was like that at one point..

and your ex girlfriend wasnt crazy she just wasnt thinking. and her urge must have been HUGE lol.

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9 years 11 months ago #4 by Mike_harvey
Mike_harvey replied the topic: Re:Premature Girls Wanting Babies
Thanks for the replies,

I guess it does make sense to have that natural urge to have a baby. I never thought about the fact that young girls play mommy with their baby dolls.. duh.

I guess my confusion came from my past relationship with my ex-girlfriend. We were both young (I was 18 and she was 17) and she desperately wanted a baby. She actually hid her urge behind my back and lied about taking birth control. She ended up getting pregnant (as a huge shock to me) but she then had a miscarriage. It was a miracle on my half because I wasn't ready at all to have a baby and possibly be a deadbeat dad like the way mine ended up.

That two year relationship ended pretty bad, and I finally moved on from it at around the time I began college. I've talked to many girls about the situation and every one of them thought the same thing as me (\"she's crazy!\").
And also, I have yet to meet a girl who wanted a baby so badly, or even a girl who wants a baby at all until they graduate, establish a career, then get married sometime in the future.

So I guess that's where all my questions stemmed from.. and that's probably why I didn't think it was a natural thing for a girl to want a baby so bad, because I've met so many girls that apparently do not have such urges.

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9 years 11 months ago #5 by rocky51
rocky51 replied the topic: Re:Premature Girls Wanting Babies
finnaly a guy on the site!!!!!!!!!!

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9 years 11 months ago #6 by bweber
bweber replied the topic: Re:Premature Girls Wanting Babies
i agree, i am 18 and have a 6month old boy, i got pregnant at 17 and had him shortly after i turned 18....i think that it is primal thing in our girl genes that makes us long for a baby and it also blocks out the rational part of our brain that thinks of the consiquences of doing such a thing...i wanted a baby and after trying and not succeding i stopped trying and ended up pregnant...im very happy with my life, im a young mother, married, and have a wonderful life, and wouldnt change it...but i still agree that i dont know wut makes us want it...

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