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10 years 3 months ago #1 by alexanders_mama
alexanders_mama replied the topic: Re:it might seem awkward for a guy...
I still refuse to believe guys are decent at all.
I'm going to stay single for the rest of my life I've decided. Forever. That's it. No more of this s***.

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10 years 10 months ago #2 by summerrose
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You are a nice guy. Keep it up!

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11 years 5 months ago #3 by Britnie
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That is y she said, there a good guys out there. She didn't put you all at that guys level. And I agree with her, SOME guys are jerks, and so are SOME girls. And we both take advantage of eachother, not all of us do, but SOME of us do. We all sin and unfortunatley sometimes, other people mistkaes, cloud other peoples veiws on that entire sex, not forever, but for a while.

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11 years 10 months ago #4 by Kit
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Ryan,

That's true. I hope more guys like you are willing to stand up and speak out in support. Pregnancy doesn't just affect girls. There are many fears, emotions, and sometimes harsh realities for guys to deal with also. Just because father's aren;t physically pregnant it takes two to tango and girls need to remember that this is something that fathers have to come to terms with as well.

Kate

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11 years 10 months ago #5 by Ryan
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Hey!!!!!! just because one guy was a jerk doesnt mean we all are!!!!!!!!!!!

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12 years 5 months ago #6 by Jessica
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BJack17,

I was in your position at one time in my life. I was 17 going into my senior year in high school. I took my boyfriend to my junior year prom and he broke up with me. I was heartbroken; I thought we were going to be together forever. He was 18, a senior in high school and had never even gone as far as kissing a girl!!! He respected me. One month later we got back together and our relationship was great!!! He even kissed me. A month and a half later he asked me to have sex with him, but only if I was \"ready.\" I turned him down twice and gave in on the third time. As we began, I told him that I wanted to stop - he didn't. He treated me awful and did not respect me. We had sex a total of seven times. On the 4th of July he told me he used me to lose his virginity before he went to college. He didn't want to go to college without being a \"man.\" I was crushed. Then, a few weeks later, I was supposed to have my period and missed. I thought I was pregnant. I told him and he reacted outrageously. He kept calling me to see if I was pregnant, but hadn't had a test yet. I would ask him why he wants to know (as if a guy would care). He never told me, but I had it pin pointed. He would stay with me if I was pregnant and leave if I wasn't. Well, I gave him some news..........I told him that whether I was pregnant or not I did not want anything to do with him; the baby would take my name and he can live his life. I did not want a guy who used me around me at all - I didn't need that kind of guy's help. Turns out I was not pregnant (blessing), but I didn't need him nor did I want a guy like him. Now, I am 22, engaged and, yes, pregnant. The engagement came before the pregnancy, but there is no doubt in my mind I want this man. There are good guys out there; this is not the end of your life. You concentrate on being the best mother you know how to be and learn from the current mothers who inspire you. The boyfriend is not the important part of your life anymore; you need to change your thoughts to the baby. My grandma used to tell me, \"There are plenty of 'fish' in the sea.\" I hated hearing it, still don't like it, but I found a WONDERFUL man; there's one out there for you too. Maybe not this one........

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