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12 years 5 months ago #1 by Kara Wahn
Kara Wahn replied the topic: Re:To everyone out there
Telling your parents can be the hardest thing in the world it seems. You have so many fears about yourself being put into a new situation you cannot even fathom that it seems hard to tell someone these things. I was scared to death. Granted, when I got pregnant I was already in college and had been living on my own for a while and my now husband and I were living a life together but it still did not make it any easier. Growing up Baptist I was afraid my family would look down on me. In the end I took a deep breath and talked to them. My Father was my biggest worry but when I looked up from telling him he had the biggest smile on his face and tears in his eyes. Now my parents are typical Grandparents, and I love every moment of it. Don't forget that your parents are as they are named, parents, and they love you. Something as big as a pregnancy comes as a big shock at first but trust in yourself, believe in yourself, and take things one day at the time. The big picture can be overwhelming when the future seems unclear. Just know you are wonderful no matter who you are and you can do anything you put your mind to. Everything happens for a reason..put faith in yourself and the Lord and just BREATHE!

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12 years 6 months ago #2 by Mrs. Butterfly
Mrs. Butterfly replied the topic: Re:To everyone out there
I just wanted you girls to know that you all are beautiful inside and out. Life is going to throw you all kinds of curve balls, but keep on swingiing. And remember without Jehovah God and us women there would not be any men, women, or children in the world. So in a sense we make this earth turn, or at least we populate it. Love yourselves and others and you will do just fine.

Mrs. Butterfly :kiss:

Mrs. Butterfly

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12 years 7 months ago #3 by hope
hope replied the topic: Re:To everyone out there
hey, i just found out im pregnant too but Im 2 scare to tell my mom whats goin on i'm scare she's gonna be mad at me amd kick me out, I mean I want this baby, and I don't want to have it and give it up for adoption, or just have an abortion if I tell my mom right she'll probably say that to me..........well I dont know shes a great mother so I really dont know, I guess Im just 2 scare to tell

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12 years 7 months ago #4 by hope
hope replied the topic: Re:To everyone out there
hey, hopefully everything will be okay, im in ur same situation, in a way I feel alone but my best friend has my back, and so does my boyfriend, he's exited but worried about me because he wants this and he doesn't want me to make a stupid mistake... i'm verry glad that he is there for me... as long as he is there nothing else matters because he has everything to give me.........but I just hope everything goes well for you and for me 2..........good luck

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12 years 7 months ago #5 by hope
hope replied the topic: Re:To everyone out there
Is nice to read about others with more expirience about all this, Ill try to be strong I just found out that I'm pregnant, I hope that I can be stron just like others, and hopefully i'll have some support from my family members.................. :blush:

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12 years 7 months ago #6 by Brittany
Brittany replied the topic: Re:To everyone out there
I would also like to thank you for that post. About 2 weeks ago i also found out I was pregnant, and I'm so afraid to tell my family because I don't want them to look down on me....I was planning on getting an abortion but now that I think about it, it's not the right thing to do. I still have a long way to go but hopefully everything will turn out okay in the end, thank you very much for that and i'm glad i'm not the only one hurting.

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