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he might be abusive....need advice

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11 years 1 month ago #1 by lissy012207
lissy012207 replied the topic: Re:he might be abusive....need advice
what ever you choose will be the right thing to do. A lot of people raise a baby on their own. Being pro-life, i believe you should keep the baby no matter what. You can get child support and WIC n etc. Maybe he'll come around later on in the pregnancy. If not, id keep the baby and let it grow up to be a beautiful boy or girl and im sure that everyday, he'll think about his child at least once. I hope everything works out for you. i really do. just try to get through it the best you can and dont let anyone put you down

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11 years 1 month ago #2 by Shana
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I was in the same situation and I took my tummy and disappeared. That's not the type of person you need in your life and is most certainly not the type of father your baby needs in theirs. There's lots of help out there you just have to find it. Jesus will send your baby the father it needs one day when the time is right just as he sent my daughter her very own Daddy. Not the biological one, but he's the one who matters and we love him.

Be strong stand tall and let the door hit him in the rear on his way out!!

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11 years 1 month ago #3 by Dany84
Dany84 replied the topic: Re:he might be abusive....need advice
It most certainly was not, at all the rite thing to say to you. You might not realise this now, but the inner strength, that specific of a woman, is just totally overwhelming.

YOU WILL MAKE IT THROUGH, with or without him

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11 years 1 month ago #4 by CHASTITY
CHASTITY replied the topic: Re:he might be abusive....need advice

GURL YOU ARE GONNA HAVE A BABY DO U THINK A MAN THAT HAS NO FAITH IN U CAN TAKE CARE OF A CHILD ?
OKAY U MIGHT LOVE HIM BUT LET ME ASK U LETS SAY U HAVE A DAUGHTER AND SHE TELLS U MOM I`M HAVING A BABY AND MY MAN TOLD ME I WAS A LIAR AND A WHORE WHAT WOULD U TELL !
GIRL TAKE YOURSELF AND YOUR NEW BLESSIN AND GET OUT
TAKE FROM SOMEONE WHOS BEEN THERE!
IF U HAVE NOWHERE TO GO GO TO A SHELTER CAUSE IF NOT HE`LL HURT U AND MAKE U LOSE YOUR BABY LIKE IT HAPPIEND TO ME !

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11 years 1 month ago #5 by anonymouslyscared
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Find a better support system. If he doesn't want to be a part of your life (or your babies) then he doesn't deserve you. Find a close friend or relative and let them be there for you. Lean on someone you can trust. You definately don't need the stress of an abusive relationship ever in life, and especially not when your pregnant. You've got friends here at StandUpGirl!
You're in my prayers,
Maui

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11 years 2 months ago #6 by Ann
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I just found out that Im pregnant, and he man that I was with accused me of doing this on purpose and wants nothing to do with me, he called me a liar and a whore-what is the right thing to do?

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