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is it wrong to want to keep this baby?

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11 years 2 months ago #1 by lissy012207
lissy012207 replied the topic: Re:is it wrong to want to keep this baby?
No ones ready for pregnancy (unless you plan it) but it just happens. My whole family tried to get me to abort my baby and since i wouldnt, no one will talk to me. (not like they did before) but anyway, u can get alot of help with WIC and Welfare if you need it. Theres so much help out there and once you see the sonagram, and feel it kick for the first time, youll never give second thoughts to keeping it. good luck

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11 years 2 months ago #2 by Shana
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It's your baby and it's depending on YOU for it's life. Its never wrong to want to keep a life that you created and is growing inside you. God gave you that baby as a present. You never know, that baby might have the answer to world hunger....you and that baby are one, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

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11 years 3 months ago #3 by Mommytwice
Mommytwice replied the topic: Re:is it wrong to want to keep this baby?
What your feeling is totally normal, in fact, I would be worried if you didn't feel attached to your growing baby. I know personally, that everytime I've found out that I was pregnant, it was unexpected, but the second that I find out I always feel overyjoyed, horrified, and amazingly attached. Nothing in your life will ever be as good and as beautiful as what your going through right now, and you should be happy, and celebrate, your a mommy.

Best wishes,
Michelle J.

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11 years 3 months ago #4 by Jan
Jan replied the topic: Re:is it wrong to want to keep this baby?
You are feeling exactly what you are supposed to feel!! I want you to know that you are not alone. I have been in the same boat. I was 15 when I got pregnant and believe me it was VERY hard to even think of giving up my baby. I did give my baby up for adoption and I'm so glad now that I did. He wouldn't have had much of a life with a mom that was so young. I never had another baby but we adopted our son when I was 37. It took me that many years to get to that point. His mom was 19 and in college. I'm so glad she decided to give him up!! We adore him beyond words. He would have had a very hard time because he has an immune deficiency that could have caused death if he had had to be in daycare. The Lord works things out and I hope this has helped you to realize how much adoptive parents want,need and love their babies. Please E mail me if you would like to. Jan jrraper@knology.nwt

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11 years 3 months ago #5 by sharlie
sharlie replied the topic: Re:is it wrong to want to keep this baby?
hi,
i am 19 too and 5 months pregnant. my baby couldnt of come at a worse time. to cut it short i broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years for 4 months earlyer this year, in that time i met someone else. after deciding he wasnt for me and getting back with my ex i found out i was pregnant to this other guy. my ex was mortified but i gave him the choice, either it was both me and baby or nothing. i think if your man loves you enough he will accept the baby is still half you. im happy to say he wants me and baby to bring up as his own but if he said no I'd choose my baby. it didnt kick in to me that i was pregnant until the other day when it started bouncing around in my belly and too feel it move is amazing! im so glad i risked my relationship for my babe. im so excited now! hope you sort it all out. and a baby is better than a bloke any day!

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11 years 3 months ago #6 by Chivon
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Hi!! My name is Chivon and I'm going through the same thing. I'm 25 and my boyfriend is 22. He has 2 daughter and I have no children..........I had a still born daughter November 19,2004........Whwn he found out he said that he is not ready because he already has 2 children and if I chose to keep the baby then he would have no dealings with me but still would be there for his child. Like I told him I love him and I want to be with him............but not enough to go against something that I believe in..............So Keli I know and I understand what you are going through.............All I can say is do what is best for you..............Becuz In the end if you do decide to have the abortion the only one that is going to deal with the hurt and the pain is you!!!! And is he really worth you getting rid of your child?

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