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8 years 6 months ago #1 by mommyat18
mommyat18 replied the topic: Re:should i tell her?
i think thats a really good idea. if you send her a letter she also has some time to let it sink in..where as if you tell her over the phone..she may not know exactly the right thing to say to you.

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8 years 6 months ago #2 by bernardette.x
bernardette.x replied the topic: Re:should i tell her?
i was thinking i could write her a letter, coz then i dont have to go through the whole thing as i know i will cry!

what do you think. she has gone away for a week so i could write it and send it when she gets back.

xx

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8 years 6 months ago #3 by mommyat18
mommyat18 replied the topic: Re:should i tell her?
You know, you call it YOUR story for a reason. Its not your mothers to tell, nor your mothers to hide. If you feel that you will feel better after you tell your nan, then tell her. Be strong.

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8 years 6 months ago #4 by walkert
walkert replied the topic: Re:should i tell her?
heyy sweetie.! i know your story so i know what you are going through. and to be honost with you, i know it will be hard for you to tell your nan, but you two are really close. and i think that you should tell her, and tell her how you feel about it. dont leave anything out. if you go along with telling her i think it will make things easier in your life. because right now you are just keeping a secret from someone that means so much to you. and im sure that just keeping a secret from her is eating you alive. so i really think you should tell her. it will make you feel so much better.

just start the conversation about what you went through. just be like "I want to talk about something that is really bothering me." and im sure that she will listen. you have the strength. i know you can do it!

let us know how everything goes.

xoxo

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8 years 6 months ago #5 by nadza
nadza replied the topic: Re:should i tell her?
hey, i really think that if u tell her n tawk to her it will do u a WORLD of good, talking about it to sum1 who wont judge u n loves u is a vital step in the healing process, ur mum really has no say in who u decide to tell, coz it was ur baby,its ur pain, its ur life thats affected, not hers, n i think if u trust n luv ur nan n u know she isnt gonna judge u then go for it, u need alot of support from those who love u.... i have no idea how u shud break it tho... good luck n i wish u all the best, take care of urself

xoxox

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8 years 6 months ago #6 by christina88
christina88 replied the topic: Re:should i tell her?
YOUR NOT GOING TO BE ABLE TO REALLY FORGIVE URSELF EVEN THOUGH IT IS NOT UR FAULT 100% UNTILL U TALK TO THE PERSON U LOVE AND TRUST THE MOST ABOUT IT AND WHEN U DO U WILL FEEL SO SO MUCH BETTER

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