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Two Danes

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9 years 11 months ago #1 by randomchyck220
randomchyck220 replied the topic: Re:Two Danes
Wow i know this is really blunt but i really think you should leave him. I mean, whats going to stop him from cheating on you in the future, because if he has these secret intentions its not hard for these intentions to become very real. I mean, what if he hurts you or the baby in his attempt to be \"free?\" I knowww how hard it is to leave your babys father, i've almost had to before. But you have to be strong and think of whats right.

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9 years 11 months ago #2 by MzLady22
MzLady22 replied the topic: Re:Two Danes
oh my gosh girl. you need to leave his ass! what a creep! sometimes you just dont know who people really are. obviously he doesnt love you THAT much if he secretly hopes you would die! thats the most horrible thing ive heard. tell him he can be free anyways and he cant see you anymore. dont let him turn things around on you. Some men just have that manipulative power over us but you have got to snap out of it for your baby. Would you really want your baby to be raised by a father who wished she would have died? thats dangerous! this guy is not who you think girl. please be smart.

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9 years 11 months ago #3 by alexanders_mama
alexanders_mama replied the topic: Re:Two Danes
This person is hoping you and the baby die? Do you want to live with a person like this?
Run girl, it sounds like he is emotionally abusing you.
Count the fact that you read hus diary not as an invasion of his privacy, but as a blessing where you now know his true feeling for you. And just in case you're wondering, the are NOT normal.

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9 years 11 months ago #4 by way2young
way2young replied the topic: Re:Two Danes
HONESTLY, THAT IS KINDA SCARY. IT GAVE ME THE CHILLS. IT IS DEPRESSING THAT HE WANTS YOUA ND YOUR BABY TO DIE AND THE FACT THAT HE LOVES YOUR SIS AND MANY OTHER YOUNG GIRLS HE DOSEN'T SEEM AS THOUGH HE IS WORTH KEEPING. IT SEEMS AS THOUGH HE WANTS TO BE FREE AND I WOULD GIVE HIM THAT FREEDOM. PLEASE DON'T GET ME WONG I AM NOT TRYING TO JUDGE HIM OR YOU BECAUSE YOU KNOW HIM AND NOT ME. I AM SIMPLY SHARING MY OPINION.

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9 years 11 months ago #5 by kez_mummy_2_skye
kez_mummy_2_skye replied the topic: Re:Two Danes
My goodness girl.
Its like having 2 different lives. I believe that what i write in my diary is what i'am feeling/thinking and thats why you write it down in a diary coz you dont want to say it out loud. So maybe this is the way he feels which IS creepy and he shouldnt be leading you on if he feels this way.
I hope you can find a way to sort this out.

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10 years 1 week ago #6 by Meg11
Meg11 replied the topic: Re:Two Danes
Hey there, sorry about your boyfriend, it is hard to find out that the one you love and want a family with is an untrustworthy \"creep\", I found my daughters dad looking at porn one time, I was on the computer after he was asleep and I went to click on a browser to search for something and it showed all the last sites visited and he was looking up stuff like \"cute young girls with nice a**'s\" and some other really disturbing things....I lost all trust for him....that was kind of my final straw, he was acting really strange leading up to all that....as hard as it may be, you really should leave him, your sister is 15 and so is this other girl you mentioned in his diary....I don't know if you are having a girl or a boy but I wouldn't want a guy who wants to have sex with a little girl in my house with my child, did he have his diary in a very hidden place or was it in a spot that could easily be stumbled upon??? He secretly hopes that you and baby die in child birth??? Do you want to give him the chance to move beyond secretly hoping when the baby is screaming all night??? Run from this guy...I wouldn't trust him, my ex did the same thing...he would always turn it around on me, I found out after we were split up that he told his friend that he couldn't wait till Pennie was 18 so he would be done with us....yet when I left him he guilt tripped me and pulled the whole, \"I am going to kill myself\"...if he doesn't want to be with you give him his way but don't allow the guilt trip...he is the one who will be missing out, don't let him play head games or get all controlling...it is just not worth it and it is unhealthy for you and baby...Love Meg

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