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My boyfriend dont want my baby anymore

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9 years 11 months ago #1 by randomchyck220
randomchyck220 replied the topic: Re:My boyfriend dont want my baby anymore
Any man can be a FATHER, it takes a special guy to be a DAD.

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10 years 2 months ago #2 by health_hd
health_hd replied the topic: Re:My boyfriend dont want my baby anymore
Well, first I am sorry you are going through this feeling so alone. That must really be hard. It seems your boyfriend is really imature for texting you telling you that...that is something he should at least say in person, not through a stupid text message. He needs to step up to the plate and be a man. If I were you, I would just say, \"fine, I dont care, I know me and the baby will be just fine without you. and i am sure I will meet a wonderful guy in the near future and he will be the dad...not you\". haha, he would probably get so jealouse if you said something like that. Just let him know that he can be replaced easily. Let him think about your baby calling some other man daddy, that should make hime think twice. Hehe, well i hope i helped.

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10 years 2 months ago #3 by BlondieBabe22
BlondieBabe22 replied the topic: Re:My boyfriend dont want my baby anymore
wow, how stressful. If he is going to be a jerk about the whole situation, i wouldnt want him by the baby by him anyway. He may change his mind. All guys kind of have that scared moment, where they are questioning everything that has happened, expecially if you are having a baby. It is a hard change for both you, the mother of the child, and for the father of the child. Both of you have gotten into the situation, and it is not anyones fault. Things just happen. Wait for a while to see if he decides to help support you, and then when the baby is born if he supports the baby. Its going to be hard, and stressful both. But there is n't really any turning back now. As long as you are still up for the challenge for the baby that is all that matters. There will always be them guys that come and go. My babys daddy is extremely excited, and we have been in a relationship and on a break and in a relationship on and off through my whole pregnancy and including for 5 years before i got pregnant. But we have been best friends for 5 years also, even if he is dating another girl for a while, he always tends to break up with her and come back to me, he cant seem to stay away too long. Expecially since we are having a baby in January. He is very suppportive, but he is also 3 years older than me. I really don't know anything about your situation. but I would say just wait to see if the dad changes his mind, otherwise forget about him, and don't give him any rights unless he is going to help support. Still get child support. But yea i would say just wait to see if he changes his mind, because he too, just as you do, have the right to be scared about the whole situation. Hope that helps..C ya

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10 years 2 months ago #4 by bweber
bweber replied the topic: Re:My boyfriend dont want my baby anymore
i kinda agree with reddox...he had said yes and now he's saying no...well it's too late to back down..if he doesn't want to be with u than he can atleast pay child support...i hope things get better and turn out well...good luck

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10 years 3 months ago #5 by reddox
reddox replied the topic: Re:My boyfriend dont want my baby anymore
Make it clear to that b--stard. If he didn't want a baby, the time to say so was BEFORE you two had sex. Make that clear. He is half that baby, thus he has no options when it comes to opting out of taking care of the baby.

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10 years 3 months ago #6 by momma_of_isa
momma_of_isa replied the topic: Re:My boyfriend dont want my baby anymore
Well i would have to say your bf is very similar to my baby's daddy. If he goes and TEXTs you and tells you that than i think that should be your sign of saying 'bye bye'. That is just so immature of him to do that. My baby's dad told me almost the same exact words over the phone and i havent talked to him since i was 5 months pregnant with my now 3 month old daughter. i am telling you girl you dont need him at all. Dont let girls discourage you by saying you wont make it without the dad because that is not true. I actually think you would be better off without him. Good luck girl and keep your head up high K

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