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I'm going crazey ?

10 years 7 months ago #1 by Meg11
Meg11 replied the topic: Re:I'm going crazey ?
I dont count it a blessing to lose a baby so I guess I'm not like alot of other people...dont get so sucked into depression that you lose focus of your family...for whatever reason we dont know but God allowed you to lose your baby....it may be a tough trial to go through and I know your hurt is overwhelming but just think...you were bummed at first when you found out....next time can you imagine finding out...you will need your kids to pull you and your husband down from the clouds you will be so excited...you are leaning to cope right now and maybe someday down the road a good friend or one of your daughters will have the same experience and you know what...you will be able to relate and help someone else through their tough time....just remember if you give your cares to the Lord He will work it all out...Tears endure through the night but joy comes in the morning...I will be praying for you...Love and Prayers..Meg

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10 years 7 months ago #2 by goodluckyall
goodluckyall replied the topic: Re:I'm going crazey ?
Know that God had a reason for this baby not coming into the world, and although it won't be a replacement, you will be able to have another child one day. That doesn't mean it should be now. Remember why you were scared in the first place. Use that to motivate you to go on to nursing school so that when you do decide to have that third child you'll be better able to support them. If you feel your depression is beyond what would be normal for such a loss, please talk to a doctor, even if it's your OB/GYN. I did that when my son was born very prematurely and thank God I did. Give yourself time to grieve, but then honor that child by continuing on with your education so at least your baby's not making it won't have been in vain. I'm sure that's all your loved ones mean if they say you can now go to school.

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10 years 7 months ago #3 by Mauimom
Mauimom created the topic: I'm going crazey ?
I'm 22 year old mother of two a girl who will be four in May and a boy who is one. My life was going great I just got married and finally got the nerve to go to nursing school. Then I found out I was pregnant again at first we were bumed, but these would be are last baby and we were going to enjoy the pregnancy. Six and a half weeks into the pregnancy I lost my baby. I took it very hard I'm tearing up just writing these. Now I'm upsest with getting pregnant again, even looking at buying clomid online. Nobody will say it but I think alot of people see it as a blessing because now it wont get in the way of me going to school and my husband and I just got on our feet. But I'm falling deeper into deppresion everyday, I feel the only thing that will make me feel better is to get pregnant again.

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