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I Chose life *15 years* ღ28 ωεεкşღ

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7 years 10 months ago #1 by queenB
queenB replied the topic: Re:I Chose life *15 years* ღ28 ωεεкşღ
Hi Rachael,
Thanks for posting and telling us about your situation. I was really struck by your post. You have so much wisdom!!!!!! You should be proud of yourself. You are exactly right when you say that having an abortion can lead to depression. Most women after their abortions go through deep depression and it sometimes resurfaces each year on their due date or the date they had their abortion. If you already have depression, having an abortion does nothing but compound the problem.

We all want the best for you and the best advice I can give you is to continue with your pregnancy. Having a baby is hard - there is no doubt about that. But if you apply yourself and stick to it, you can still go to college and achieve your dreams.

The good news is that you have a supportive mother. I would talk with her more about this. I think she will be a great help to you.

Just remember that you have a wonderful little boy or girl inside of you. The best gift you can give to your child is the gift of life.

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7 years 10 months ago #2 by Rachael_17
Rachael_17 replied the topic: Re:I Chose life *15 years* ღ28 ωεεкşღ
Hiya.. I am 17 an i found out i was prego 2days ago but only 4weeks the doctor said and i have never felt so scared in my life. I have an on-off relationship with the dad and were off at the moment but he has kept in touch and has told me he's there if i need some1 to talk to but he had also told me he wanted me to get an abortion. I had told him that is against everything i believe, i decided to tell my mum and dad yday and they were suprisingly realy suportive, my mum hugged me an the 1st thing she sed was "i dont want u to get rid of it" whereas my dad sed disagreed and wanted me to abort it. I just realy need some1 to talk to and help me with what to do cause i have major plans for my future/career and i have been excepted into college to start in september but am scared that having a baby will have an effect on my career and education, and if i opt for abortion i will suffer from depression.. which i suffer from anyway.

I hope you can help me and give me some advice.
Love Rachael

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7 years 11 months ago #3 by iswaggaliciious
iswaggaliciious replied the topic: Re:I Chose life *15 years* ღ28 ωεεкşღ
Yea we are in love but I'm not really ready for marriage I'm way too young for THAT kind of commitment first off I want to give me and him some more time.

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7 years 11 months ago #4 by Stockton09
Stockton09 replied the topic: Re:I Chose life *15 years* ღ28 ωεεкşღ
Don't rush into things. It's much safer that way. Marriage isn't such a bad idea either, if you two are in love that is. I hope everything goes well.

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7 years 11 months ago #5 by iswaggaliciious
iswaggaliciious replied the topic: Re:I Chose life *15 years* ღ28 ωεεкşღ
No hes my good friends cousin and he gratuated high school and is working and yea I think its too early to get married but if there was a threat that he can get in trouble we would since he's helping me so much. Yes I do have everything I need =] ty

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7 years 11 months ago #6 by Meg11
Meg11 replied the topic: Re:I Chose life *15 years* ღ28 ωεεкşღ
Do the two of you have any plans for marriage? Since your mom kicked you out would she go ahead and sign for you to be married? Does he have his own place? Do you have everything you need?...I just want to make sure that you are ok...did you two meet at school?...Love Meg

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