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I had to make the hardest decison of my life

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9 years 3 weeks ago #1 by Autumn
Autumn replied the topic: Re:I had to make the hardest decison of my life
I'm really sorry that you went through that, but you do need to forgive yourself. You may not be able to move on, but you do need to try.

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9 years 3 weeks ago #2 by i.FiGHt.fOR.lOVE.
i.FiGHt.fOR.lOVE. replied the topic: Re:I had to make the hardest decison of my life
if you need anything, let me know.
im sorry all this had to happen.. :(

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9 years 1 month ago #3 by GangY
GangY replied the topic: Re:I had to make the hardest decison of my life
hunny...
please you have to know that you are not alone. there are people that want and hopefully also can help you.
it helps to speak about it.
it does.

i was there, i know totally what you are feelin...maby not 100% but atleast 90% of that..

if you wanna talk, or anythin... i would be glad to be there for you..

you can post or eami8l me anmytime you want

love,
monika**

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9 years 1 month ago #4 by pinkchik6
pinkchik6 replied the topic: Re:I had to make the hardest decison of my life
sweetie im not going to lie to you it wont get better but it will be okay.

I too had an abortion based on other peoples opinions my baby would've been two months old. and i too hate myself. all i can say is NEVER EVER listen to other people again. you listen to your heart and your heart only

i feel my baby around me. it helps me to talk to her. i like to think it does anyway. you should try it.

i believe my baby has forgiven me, but when i have my break downs i still get worried that my baby hates her mum for what i did.

talk to me anytime sweet x x

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9 years 1 month ago #5 by jessey223
jessey223 replied the topic: Re:I had to make the hardest decison of my life
You are not a horrible person....I know this doesn't seem possible right now but the pain will fade with time. Don't expect for it to be next week or next month but it will eventually and this will help you grow into the person you will someday be. I had an abortion at 16 and it was awful, I too cried myself to sleep and thought about that baby all of the time. It's been 8 years (god that makes me feel old) and I still think of the day the baby was supposed to be born but it did make me who I am today. And I don't wonder anymore if I would have been able to do it because I now know that I could have but I would not have my daughter that I had at 18 if I had that baby. So sometimes life takes turns and they are hard but it will all work out. I really hope you believe me when I tell you that you are not a horrible person. I am here anytime to talk. Jessica

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9 years 1 month ago #6 by jenni
jenni replied the topic: Re:I had to make the hardest decison of my life
i know how u feel but firstly be grateful u had ur boyfriend around when i had to make the decision my ex was knowhere to be seen. when i first found out he promised me all these things that he would provide for me and the baby but as soon as our parents found out he had no back bone and backed out of everything he promised me!! i know exactly how you feel about feeling guilty and like you have betrayed your baby...it does get i promise it takes time but concentrate on your future and completing school thats what i had to do i was taking my exams when i found out i was pregnant and it had its consequences but im a college now and i think sometimes i wouldnt have that if i had had my baby you sometimes have to convince yourself of the way things could have been bad. but one day you will meet your baby in heaven and then you have all the time in the world to have with him/her. hope thats all i can say hope for the future =]

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