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Post-Abortion Depression?

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10 years 10 months ago #1 by mrs_meliss
mrs_meliss replied the topic: Re:Post-Abortion Depression?
I don't blame you-after someone treats you that way and acts like it was nothing-i have been through that and know the relationship is gone now or will be. it happened to me. not right away but it fell apart. i realized i deserved better and that one day i would meet the man who really truly loved me and i did-7 years later, but it happened. i know how you feel, you may not want to talk about it ever, and then one day you will. and you will fight to heal from it.
after what you went though you can bet you wont let any other guy push you around or bully you into anything again. and you will be ok and you can help others one day when you are ready. dont be afraid or too ashamed to do so. take your time with God, cry, get mad, let it all out. scream if you have to, but let ourself express it and heal. dont bottle it up.
i am praying for you and know somehow this experience has changed your life and now you can make the chnages you need to and move on. dont deal with peple in your life who dont love you love you and bring you down, surround yourself with supportive people.
talk to a professional or support line if you have to. we all are here for you even though you feel alone.your not. email me anytime you need to talk.

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10 years 11 months ago #2 by sgurl
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i know how it feels to truelly be alone. After my abortion i didn't want to talk to anybody, especially my mom. When everything was all said and done i didn't have anything to say to her. Yeah i cry and just when i think im actually gonna be okay im overwelled again by sorrow. My mom wonders why i haven't apologized...... The only thing im sorry for is for her making me get an abortion and for this pain that i have 2 go through
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10 years 11 months ago #3 by angel_gal84
angel_gal84 replied the topic: Re:Post-Abortion Depression?
i agree with everyone,

having an abotion is the most hardest thing i had my abortion 12/10/2006

i did get pushed into having my abortion by my boyfriend. My family and friends all wanted me to keep it but he didny coz we are not set up enough to raise a kid just yet.

If you just open up to all the girls on this website they will help you. Everyone tries there hardest to brighten up any dull suitation,

if you ever need to talk to someone that has been through the same suitation as you please contact me and i might be able to help.

lisaxxxx

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10 years 11 months ago #4 by breezybwe
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your post has helped me figure the words i had been trying to say, what you said made so much sense and the way you said it really has helped me.

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10 years 11 months ago #5 by breezybwe
breezybwe replied the topic: Re:Post-Abortion Depression?
im sorry about your story, you are never alone here, afte ri found this place its helped so much. in a weird way though, its nice to hear everyones excitement about their babies, since i cant feel the excitement myself, it just prepares me for when i am pregnant again, when i will be able to keep my baby. the post-abortion depression has got me addicted to finding out how far along i WOuld have been, it also tears me apart at night becaus ei feel like im the only one still thinking about it... i really want to go back three weeks ago and change my descision, but i cant, all i can do is move forward, and plan for my next chance to be a mommy.

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10 years 11 months ago #6 by missyboo1987
missyboo1987 replied the topic: Re:Post-Abortion Depression?
Im sorry to here about what happened. I know how it is to feel alone. I too was pregnant at a time and I told My boyfriend.I said to him were having a baby and went to give him a hug and he pushed me away . He told me to get an abortion and I was so devistated by his reaction. It really has scared are relationship and we may never get t right again. I had a misscariage with that one. I am pregant again and was told the same thing but not only by him by my father, my sister and basically every one else.I heard my sister say something that really hurt me she said that my boyfriend was forced into keeping the baby. nobody told him to have sex with me he did it willing. It really hurt to hear my sister think about the situation like she did . it made me feel like I was ruining his life which I had already felt. I really still feel very alone. It also seems like that was the only time my father really was worried about me and he wasnt worried about my feelings it was all about if I was ruining my life or not. Times are hard but dont give up.There wil be a right time for every thing and maybe both you and your future husband will be blessed an it wil be a happy ocasion.I know from my experience I will never take chances with a boy who is not my husband because time after time I have seen boys run away whe you need them the most( in a situation like this) Im not saying every one is like this but I hope you will see this as a experience you must learn from. Im hope I havent said any thing to hurt your feelings and I hope the best for you

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