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Decision time

  • teachermom
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11 years 1 week ago #1 by teachermom
teachermom replied the topic: Re:Decision time
Honey you have 2 other VERY REAL CHOICES!!

I have to address what you said about \"not being fair to your baby\". Please think about how fair it is to KILL YOUR BABY, becasue once you do it it is FINAL and so many girls here bravely share their guilt and trauma over their abortions.

YOU HAVE OTHER OPTIONS>

1) You can get public assistance and YOU CAN KEEP THIS BABY! TRULY. You can get into school (I don't know how old you are) and you can BECOME self sufficient. Financial situations change.

2) YOU CAN GIVE THIS BABY ACHANCE AT A BEAUTIFUL LIFE through adoptin. My sons birthparents did. and WE ARE ALL VERY HAPPY - including them. We keep in contact - they see tons of pictures of him and THEY KNOW HE IS ALIVE AND WELL AND THRIVING! Please - there are so many resources online AND there are potential adoptiove parents willing to HELP you get on your feet financially!

Please stop and think first.Please BE /FAIR TO YOURSELF and your baby!! You can email me if you need an adult to talk to. I can give you phone numbers, etc.

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11 years 1 week ago #2 by Kelsey
Kelsey replied the topic: Re:Decision time
Fahtma, I hate to tell you this, but your boyfriend is probably going to be in trouble no matter what you decide. Abortion clinics are required to report rape cases even if it is just statuatory. So if that's your main concern you might as well have the baby. An abortion is not going to help him, it is not going to help your relationship with your mom, and it DEFINITELY won't be best for your baby!

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11 years 1 week ago #3 by mom for the second time around
mom for the second time around replied the topic: Re:Decision time
I know this must be a very hard time in your life but did you eer think of adoption, there are many organazations out there that can helpyou financially until the time comes to give birth to the child. Pleae rethink you decision not only is it important for you and the baby but for some other couple out there who desperatly wants a child

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11 years 1 week ago #4 by fahtma
fahtma replied the topic: Re:Decision time
its okay. i mean u know what ur gonna do. im 2 month pregnant. only 14 and i dont know waht to do. my boyfriend is 18 adn if my mom finds out its his then hsi going to jail. my mom would kill me if she foound out. im so scared. im really close to her. and my life it had never been easy. so i dont have a job niether. cant really afford my cravings. i hope u get better, and when u pray tonight please pray for me to. cuz i need it. thank u

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11 years 2 weeks ago #5 by *haley*
*haley* replied the topic: Re:Decision time
hey i have been there i thought the same thing...would i actuaaly be able to do this on my own... and you know what i know i can do this on my own... the father left and moved back to mexico...back to a whole nother country!!!! but hey it makes you strong and you want to give your child a good life so you will be determind to do it and then you'll succeed....

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11 years 2 weeks ago #6 by treasuresrose
treasuresrose replied the topic: Re:Decision time
Yes, it is your decision. But I just want to throw in my two cents. I have been through some really tough financial situations. My hubby's been out of work for a few months and I'm at home 6 months pregnant with our first. Last month we hit rock bottom-no way out, or so it seemed. We couldn't pay our rent, had no money for groceries, no car, no work, and no family members with any extra money. We started packing our things with no idea where we would go. At the last possible moment, God heard my prayers of desperation and provided us with rent money and gave us a car. Next week my husband will probably have a very good paying job and I will be able to finally get some much needed maternity clothes. So don't give up, and don't worry about bringing a baby into the world that's already on the way. I don't know if you believe in God or the Bible, but He has promised to be a father to the fatherless and to provide for our needs so have faith, ok? Keep in touch and if I can help I will. We have been helping a neighbor girl who is 17 and has a 1 1/2 yr. old baby girl. I'm proud of her for the choice she made to keep her baby despite her financial odds. Where there's a will, there's a way. Blessings and best wishes whatever your choice!

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