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I'm 16 and just ruined my life

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10 years 9 months ago #1 by Babygurl801d
Babygurl801d replied the topic: Re:I'm 16 and just ruined my life
well for starters everything happens for a reason. and as much as your heart fluttered for that boy wait until you see your first ultra sound. hear the heart beat etc etc.. you fall head over heels in love, which mother lsnt scared to be pregnant with her first child at any age.. i went to parenting class and there are some late bloomers in there i talkin around 40 years old with their first baby together, they asked some pretty funny ?'s because they didnt know but i am in no place ot judge because ive been there and asked the same ?'s... i am 16 and pregnant, at the current time i had a job, and was doing great in school, oh wow the best ive done, i was happy and still ready to keep going, but then i got pregnant. and it all fell right in front of my eyes! but now i look at it like 'well at least i got my baby' most moms regret abortion but never regret having a kid, and if your kids a hellion, hey you still got him/her etc etc. theres always adoption for yu.. me personally im against everything except for raising your kid, if you can. i mean you did it, the both of you did it.

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10 years 9 months ago #2 by jessica828497
jessica828497 replied the topic: Re:I'm 16 and just ruined my life
Hi,
CONGRATULATIONS!
I am now 22 years old and pregnant with number 4. I found out I was pregnant with my first at 14 years old. I had my second daughter when I was 16. I had number 3 when I was 21 and am going to have number 4 at 22. The best thing I ever could have done as a teenage parent was go to a school for pregnant and parenting teens. I know it sounds misserable, but it helped me so much. Free diapers, formula, clothes, even food for me. And the best part, no one could judge me because we were all in the same situation. I actually graduated early. The only financial resource I can think of right now is WIC, Medi-cal, food stamps, and cash aid. I know there are more, I just cant think of them right now. Feel free to message me if you want to talk. Good luck!
Jessica

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10 years 9 months ago #3 by jasmine7312007
jasmine7312007 replied the topic: Re:I'm 16 and just ruined my life
Hi,
I am 22 and 11 weeks pregnant and am nervous. When i went to college a friend of mine discovered she was 3 mos pregnant. Her parents kicked her out and she moved in with her boyfriend. She has since graduated with honors and is on her way to Yale Medical School.
Your life isn't over. Pregnacy changed your life but it doesn't ruin it or end it, your life will be different should you decide to keep the baby but it is not over by any means.
Good Luck

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10 years 9 months ago #4 by sadayah
sadayah replied the topic: Re:I'm 16 and just ruined my life
hi ashley my name is sadayah im 16 and im a junior in high school...........im 14 weeks pregnant and im keeping my baby i told my mom and she was really upset but then she had started to get over it and be with me.but now its like im all alone. my boyfriend is there for me and i love him so much i dont know what i would do without him hes 18 and had 2 drop out of college to come home and take care of his baby,. do i feel bad hell yea. jus know that you are not alone....i dont encorage abortion but whatever you decide to do just know that you can e-mail me anytime to talk. just stay strong. and all the things you said about having the high expectations for yourself trust me i felt the same way i tried so hard 2 be a succeseful doctor but now im pregnant ...i hope i can get through this and still become a doctor....so just follow your dream if you decide to keep your baby dont listen to what everybody tells you stay strong and i hope you make the right decison remember you can e-mail me anytime...


love,
sadayah

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10 years 9 months ago #5 by xosoontobmommy07xo
xosoontobmommy07xo replied the topic: Re:I'm 16 and just ruined my life
Hey my name is Heather and i know EXACTLY how u feel. I got pregnant when i was 15 now im 16 and 6 weeks away from giving birth to a baby girl. When i first suspected i was pregnant i cried myself to sleep evrynite. My mom is strong in the christian belief and always told me that she knew i wasnt stupid enough to do something like being pregnant. But she was wrong. She knew i was pregnant w/o me ever opening my mouth! She confronted me about it and i was SO afraid that she would be mad but she wasnt mad she just had this look of complete disapointment like i had let her down. It was the worst feeling in the world. But i knew it wasnt this baby's fault and there was NO way i was having an abortion. And i couldnt just give up something that was now a part of me. So im keeping my baby. My bf is now my fiance!! he has been happy from the start which helped so much bc i couldnt bare the thought of raising my baby w/o him!! But one advantage i do have over u is his parents are REALLY accepting of the whole thing!! Just please DONT let anyone talk u into having an abortion!! its NOT this babys fault... if u do decide to keep ur baby u probly WONT regret it! The joy and excitement of preparing for a baby is WONDERFUL.... and im sure welcoming ur new baby into the world will be the BEST feeling u will ever have!! But if u ever need anything or anyone to talk to im always here!! Hope to hear from u soon!!! Let me know wut u plan on doing about ur situation!!!
<3 Heather

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10 years 9 months ago #6 by Lady_c
Lady_c replied the topic: Re:I'm 16 and just ruined my life
Okay....u should look at my forums...i am 22...i got pregnant 3 times last year 2 were miscarriages and i unfortunatly chose an abortion back in november...I regret it....everyday i regret it. I have nightmares of my baby. All cuz the father was scared and i didnt kno how to talk to my mom. I really dnt recomend you to abort it. It is cruel, cold and no matter how many people go with you.....you will feel alone,,,and scared. I thought it was what i wanted but trust me....u will not regret having your baby. U could alwayz choose adoption if u dont think u could do it. I just found out that i am pregnant again, i really dnt kno how....but when i find out the details ill make sure to post them....if i am pregnant...im keeping it. I will work my ass off and get my life together for my baby and I...this time around the daddy is actually a little more understanding....just please...think about it.....if u need advise....message me anytime..morning noon or night...i will respond to you....i wish you luck in your decision....

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