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"My life"

11 years 1 month ago #1 by mommytoele
mommytoele replied the topic: Thank You!
First, I want to say Thank you to EVERYONE who read \"part of my life, story\"... Though, I could write a book:
Which currently I am doing...

I want to tell you all that everyone's posts/comments were ALL so nice and some were encouraging. I love my daughter to death, she means so much to me. Since her visitaiton has started, and the week long visitations- which currentley she is on one... She should be coming home tomorrow, Sunday at 5p.m., and now will not becoming home until 5p.m. this coming up Friday. I miss her a lot, and everyday I realize how much she means to me, and the time I spend with her means EVERYTHING. She is wonderful, very strong and willed. I suppose she has to be though, living this way. I wanted to say that I have tried to get Supervised Visits, I have tried to get it so when my ex has her even just for an over night he can NOT take her over the border, out of state another words- though they will NOT accept that. The judge and my daughter's Law Guardian, who I do not believe is doing the best of job to his ability and YES, I am looking into that...

I must be off, until then- everyone take care, keep writing, but most of all--- Keep Smiling!


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11 years 1 month ago #2 by kez_mummy_2_skye
kez_mummy_2_skye replied the topic: Re:\"My life\"
I have to say im glad you were strong enough to stand up to the family and get away from it all.You dont need that kind of crap in your life.You have a lovely daughter.
I would say that it wouldnt be him pushing for more access it would be his family doing all the work telling him what to say. My hubby has had such a hard time trying to see his kids with his ex and she just plainly says \"no im the mother\"

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11 years 1 month ago #3 by lissy012207
lissy012207 replied the topic: Re:\"My life\"
I have to have two different surgeries after my son is born on my arm so that I MIGHT be able to lift it again. They're both 4-6 hour procedures and I'll have one, then two weeks later, they are going to do the other one. I'm scared that something like what happened to you will happen to me. They have to take a major nerve from my one leg on the first surgery and cut my neck and attach it there. Then on the second one, theyre taking another major nerve and attaching it to right beside/behind my boob. There is going to be a spot like, the size of a silver dollar on my foot that I wont be able to feel but they told it it wont effect my walking or anything. I'm scared that they will mess up somehow and i wont be able to walk again or they will do something wrong b/c theyre working around my neck n heart. They assure me that I have the best doctor around and nothing will go wrong but with my luck it will..

So, what started the problems with you and your ex? You mentioned what happened but I dont remember reading why it happened. (If you dont mind telling me..) Me and my fiance get into a lot of fights. Sometimes theyre so bad that I just want to run away and never come home. But i know that everything is going to be ok and we always make up. I'm just scared that one day, we wont. Theyre mostly over me being a b*tch b/c of my pregnancy hormones though.

I hope everything works out for you. I really do. You seem like a good person and a great mom and I hope I can be that good to my son when he's born :-)

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11 years 1 month ago #4 by lisa
lisa replied the topic: Re:\"My life\"
OMG that is such a terrible thing.

Sorry to hear that. i think that u should go back to the family courts and request a him to be supervised with ur child when he has her.

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11 years 1 month ago #5 by dillon12
dillon12 replied the topic: Re:\"My life\"
wow funnily enough my sis went through went though the kinda same as jills did. my sis husbands family is CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! my sis husbands family never wanted anything to do wth my nephew when he was first born as he wasnt old enough to do things 4 himself e.g go to toilet and stuff like that. but when he started get older he didnt want to go there as they smoke and drink and go all crazy and mi nephew hates going there as he is so closeto my family and he is not dump( he is now 3) my sis mother in law has never liked my sis as she was 18 when she got preg and her husband was 28, she was doing all she could to split them up and the sad thing after 2 years of marrige and preg wth there second child she got what she always wanted. now his family want my nephew to go there and 1 my sister doent want him going there not even with his father as they are psyco, but my nephew doesnt want to go there. she is getting through it but only coz she got the support from my family. she worries about my nephew eveytime he has to go with his father not coz of him but coz of his family.

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11 years 1 month ago #6 by Jill
Jill replied the topic: Re:\"My life\"
That is terrible! Well my sister went through a sort of similar situation. Her ex's family is crazy! They wanted to take my nephew for a while even after my sister and their son broke up! They would call my sister and threaten her and tell her that she was being immature for not letting them be a part of my nephews life! My sisters ex is crazy. He has chased me, my sister and my nephew through town and stuff and on back roads and cut his car in front of ours! It was nuts! His father is a terrible alcholic! My sister and her ex went to court and he got visitation for every other weekend and he gets to see my nephew on holidays (part of the day). But pretty much what your ex's family did was kidnap you! You should have told the police that! If anyone locks anyone somewhere and wont let them leave that is kidnapping! Thats sick! I cant believe that the court lets your ex take your baby so much! I can see every other weekend but all the other days is alot! If you are worried about him taking off with your baby then you should request supervised visitation! My sister requested that her ex take my nephew only to his sisters or his parents (as much as she hates to) because he used to have a drug problem. You should deffinately tell the court you are afraid of your child being kidnapped by the father! They may change the ruling! Good luck to you and let me know how everything goes!

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