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What would you do

  • roxanne
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12 years 1 day ago #1 by roxanne
roxanne replied the topic: Re:What would you do
Rebecca please rethink what you are doing. You can never take back an abortion. I know woman who are so depressed and even suicidal because of what they did.. May god be with you

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12 years 1 day ago #2 by lisa
lisa replied the topic: Re:What would you do
Hello - this is for Rebecca atually.

You said that you wanted to get an abortion, yet you are looking for help. Well may I say ... yes. We would love to help you, but first you will need to help and make the right decision. The right decision is for life. Let your baby live. As you can see this website is FULL of girls that are full of remorse, sadness and guilt for having chosen abortion. Though abortion seems like the easy way out and then you think that you can then just go on with your life, when really you won't. Abortion doesn't make your BABY go away. It replaces the anticipation of life with the dread of remorse. Sadness. A deep guilt within you that is extremely painful and something that you will never be able to shake.

So Rebecca - please, come back here and get the support from all of the girls and Becky and I on this website. You can do it. You can be a Stand Up Girl.

There is a link on the right side of this screen and there is an Option Line with an 800 number where there will be someone there to actually talk to. Please also give that number a try. Let us know how you are.

Luv Lisa

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12 years 2 days ago #3 by ChantiStar
ChantiStar replied the topic: Re:What would you do
To Rebecca:
Let me tell you something. I was 20 when I discovered I was pregnant. Now I am 22 and Sofia is 9 months old. Everyday I look at her I think how beautiful she is. I am not talking about some off the wall comment. I mean, she is so beautiful I can't even describe what more in life is beautiful. It's just indescribable. After I think that, as she lay in her crib peacefully, I sincerely thank God because I know I don't deserve this precious being. But God wants me to take care of her and love her. I have realized that every human being has a purpose in life, a divine purpose. He uses new life to bring happiness and peace into the world. Years from now, Sofia may save someone's life or discover corruption in a political circle, I mean, you just don't know. And for you to sit at your desk and cold-heartedly, without thinking, that you are having an abortion is unfathomable. You want to know what else I think? When I look at her body, I shudder to think of what an abortion would have done to her arms, legs, head, heart. She would have been ripped apart, piece by piece. I have seen pictures, I have read literature, I INFORMED myself of everything and that is why I had the grace and will to go through with the pregnancy. You should do the same. If you haven't noticed, the population of the world, especially in Europe is declining. Doesn't take a genius to figure out why. I was in your position, whatever you are going through, I have felt. I was alone, and very, very afraid. And as I write this to you, Rebecca, my little 9 month old daughter is crawling around playing with toys and laughing at herself in the full-length mirror on the closet door. You may not see the whole picture of why you are pregnant (as I wasn't sure what it was either), but God does, and He wants you to trust in Him. The more you stress and worry, the worse it gets, ok? Just deal with the situation. Life is hard, I know, I never knew how much, but now I am familiar with that phrase. I didn't run away from my problems, I didn't buckle under pressure, I dealt with the hand I was given. I don't like it when others don't deal with their problems either. It's almost an insult to all the sacrificing I went through. I hope you find the courage to change the things you can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

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12 years 2 days ago #4 by Rebecca
Rebecca replied the topic: Re:What would you do
Hi well i am pregnant and i am havin a abortion but i am unsure can uhelp

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12 years 3 days ago #5 by ChantiStar
ChantiStar replied the topic: Re:What would you do
I don't understand why you wouldn't have already told them. Secrets suck. They bring you down. You will feel much better once you tell them. If they don't like it, they'll get over it. Just start by saying, \"It wasn't a mistake I got pregnant.\" They'll get the hint and then go from there. Love, Chanti

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12 years 4 days ago #6 by jaylen
jaylen replied the topic: Re:What would you do
Why ruin a good thing? If your family don't know, it won't hurt them...

Perhaps you should tell the father however. Eventually it'll slip out one day, better sooner than later, and he is the other half of your child, doesn't he have a right to know that his baby is not an 'accident', but was rather wanted before it was conceived?

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