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8 years 7 months ago #1 by tracy17
tracy17 replied the topic: Re:abortion
I'm 17 and just found out i'm pregnant, i don't have a clue what to do. Some people keep telling me if i keep it im throwing my life away. However others are saying that abortion is cruel and children are the most precious thing in life. What should i do? :S

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8 years 7 months ago #2 by ChinaDoll1718
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9 years 7 months ago #3 by karendobbs
karendobbs replied the topic: Re:abortion
To all the ladies who have had an abortion: Always remember that God can heal your pain. I never had an abortion, but I know that it is not all your fault. Society teaches that abortions are okay. \"Live for the moment and if you get pregnant, it can be taken care of.\" This is not what should be taught. We had all made the decision to have sex before marriage and without proper protection. We have all fallen short of the Glory of God, but there is healing and forgiveness.

It makes my heart ache for each one of you ladies that have had an abortion. I give you this gift, the only one I know how to give to those in deep distress. The love of God, and the forgiveness that Jesus can give. All you have to do is ask and receive it. It truly is easier said than done, but it is an important step in the healing process. Another part of forgiveness is forgiving yourself. I see many of you say that you hate yourselves for what you did. I have been taught that when you don't forgive yourself when God has already done so, then you are unknowingly placing yourself above God. I also feel that God just now told me to write this: ask your baby to forgive you also. Remember, he/she is in heaven right now waiting for you to come to God so that he/she can meet you up there. It is not over for you. As long as you find (or found) salvation in Christ, you can be with him/her in heaven for eternity.

God's hands are tied in regards to your life until you give Him permission. Allow His healing hand to come into your life.

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9 years 7 months ago #4 by Meg11
Meg11 replied the topic: Re:abortion
I agree with Alexanders_mama in the sense that when you have a child totally dependent on you there is nothing that will keep you from providing every need and more, being in college or working a job doesn't mean your kids will not be provided for but what I think queenB is trying to say is that if you are not married and if you are busy with school then it is not the best idea to purposely get pregnant and have a baby, you should take the time to finish school and establish a happy marriage and a stable environment in which you will not have to put your child into day care as much, etc...Now for a girl who did not plan her pregnancy but ended up with an unexpected pregnancy while attending University then kudos to her for Standing Up and for making the needed sacrifices for her child and giving the baby 100% even with the busy schedule, for that child it is better to have life even if it happens to consist of a busy schedule and sometimes not the most ideal circumstances...to all the moms out there who are in University and raising your kids on your own even in the face of difficulty I congratulate you but for those who are in the midst of college and are not even in a stable relationship then I think it would be wise to wait for the sake of your future family...Meg

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9 years 7 months ago #5 by misskatie
misskatie replied the topic: Re:abortion
hi i was just readin ur message n it made me cry i know exactly how u are feelin and the same as the girl below i had an abortion about 12 months ago n i cant get ova it i hate my self for wat i did n people telin me it was the right thing to do coz it wasnt n they didnt tell me how much it wud hurt after did they? i wud do nefin to have my babey bk but i dont wona be tryin for one becoz lik u sed i wona be a good mom n my babey albe to av fing n for me to be around it not in skol nt beenin able to see it til after, but i know i wil neva get him/her bk n im jst gona av to live with that but it hurts. Its hard to talk to people who havnt been thro it coz they dont understand how much it changes ur life completly thats why im glad i found tis site coz its nice to talk to people who understand what you have been thro. x x x

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9 years 7 months ago #6 by GangY
GangY replied the topic: Re:abortion
Hey... thank you for answering me.. that's just the problem of mine..i know i have to forgive myself..there are some days that i actually do forgive me...but then it comes all over me again.. and that's why i'm depressed :S
thank you for your advice,but here it is, my problem, i'm living in a country in wich there are no organizations like in the USA, or England or so :(
i'm living in a country in wich also nobody suports teen-pregnancys, even my old doctor (where i had made my pregnancy test) didn't tell me that there is a choice of keeping the baby...she made me the ultrasound and bum in a second she started talikn about abortion..i think that's also a fact why i am depressed..i kond of blame my self to not inform myself about other options..i'm mad on me 'cause i didn't know that time all about teen-pregnancy, or maby adoption... but what is done is done...i just can't whait the day when i am going to be with my baby again.

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