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13.. pregnant.. scared!

  • brittni
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11 years 4 months ago #1 by brittni
brittni replied the topic: Re:13.. pregnant.. scared!
hey girl i wish you the best best of luck with ur babies... i hope everything goes good... i just had a baby girl on may 3rd. and guess wut i'm only 15 gurl god bless you and i know you will love your babies

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11 years 4 months ago #2 by Jenn
Jenn replied the topic: Re:13.. pregnant.. scared!
I was 16 years old when I found out I was pregnant and 17 when I gave birth. My son is now 13 years old and I am turing 31 this year. Being a young single parent is about the hardest thing I have ever done but I would not change it for the world. I worked two jobs and had tons of help from my family. I went to school all day and then went to work at night. My sons father was in and out of our lives never really helped with anything. 13 years later I am still going back and forth to court for support. I am now married and I actually own my own home and have a great job. I never thought that would happen but I also never gave up. I just read about the girl who is 13 and pregnant, Honey, YOU MUST TELL YOUR PARENTS!!! You CAN NOT do this on your own. I have a 13 year old child and there is no way I would expect my son to handle a situation like this with out my help. I am not saying you are not a smart girl but at your age your parents know alot more things then you do, they have been through alot more things and they will be able to help you. It is the worst thing in the world to have to gain the courage to tell them that their 13 year old daughter is going to have a baby but you need to do it. Write them a letter and ask for them to take some time to talk it over then after they get their minds clear you need their help. They will not turn against you if you ask them for help. You can not do this alone. I belive everything happens for a reason, I am unable to have anymore children do to medical problems(PCOS) and I am greatful now that I have my son. I have done fertility with my husband and nothing has worked. I would love to have another child but it is not going to happen. Please think about all your options and talk to your parents you need them more now then ever before! Good Luck to you!

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11 years 4 months ago #3 by Ali
Ali replied the topic: Re:13.. pregnant.. scared!
I read your story, and I'm very sorry to hear that the person who got you pregnant won't be there for you. I am also pregnant, and I am 16 (about to be 17). It's going to be hard, but I know that we both can do it. And you know, there are other options, like adoption. *Abortion is not an option... at least to me. I know that if you get one, you will regret it... most people do.* Anyway.

Eventually, you will realize *if you choose to keep the baby* that it is the biggest blessing in your life, and it may be hard at first... but eventually... it will get better. I promise.

Believe me, everything you have coming, I also have coming.

Later love,

I wish you the best of luck.


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11 years 4 months ago #4 by xiamara
xiamara replied the topic: Re:13.. pregnant.. scared!
Hey ella my name is Xiamara, I'm 20 years old, I got pregnant when I was 18 had my beautiful son feb 23, 2005 and now he's 16 months old and he is my pride and joy. He was a plan baby I always wanted a baby. I was still in high school, it was my last year and I made it, I graduated! That was the happiest day of my life. That shows you that you can make it Also! Don't give up Elle. Make the right choice and that first choice is nourish and keep the baby! YOu won't regret it now you can love something you can say is yours. Teach him or her things. Second tell your mom! Believe your still young she won't turn her back on you she would be a little upset but she will get over it and will take action from there. You can be what ever you want to be in life! GO for it! Reach for the stars Elle there's no limit for you and your baby's dreams! God will be your number one Provider in your baby's life and yours as well. And about your ex b/f tell him talk to him like a young lady that wants the best out of this situation. If he wants to be there, that's the begining of a family journey. You can make it with him or without him. Remember there's so much support out there for you and the baby! DOn't do anything you will regret o.k. Work harder to make smart choices. DOn't let anyone tell you different! YOu are resposible for that little angle God sent from heaven inside of you. I'm know what I'm talking about, now it's up to you to take action! I wish you luck and I will pray for you and leave it in GOd's hands! Please emai me anytime at seyamara20@yahoo.com.

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11 years 4 months ago #5 by alexandmarcus
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hey girl, wow i have just experienced what you are now. i am 14 and was very scared that i was pregnant. but yesturday i found out that i wasnt. i was thinking of all the negative things about this. but really the are so many positive things. you will have you own child. i know how scared you are to tell your parents but once you do it will be a huge weight lifted of your shoulders i guarentee it. they will be mad at first but the wil help because you are there daughter and they cant help being supportive. dont think that they wont help because they will. if your scared to tell them then ask your mom to take you to the doctors so the doctor can tell her. thats the way i would of done it i think.

email me sometime if you want to talk. alexandmarcus@yahoo.com

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11 years 4 months ago #6 by Amber
Amber replied the topic: Re:13.. pregnant.. scared!
I know what you're going through. recently, I've experienced signs of pregnancy and I'm only 13. I've thought I was pregnant in the past, but this time I think I actually got through. My mom had me when she was 16. It wasn't the smartest. her and her boyfriend treat me like crap. I promised myself I would never get pregnant before I was married,but I'm 13 and expecting motherhood. I'm scared to death. But,I still love my baby. I'm keeping mine. As for you,that's our choice. Tell your parents and tell them you love the baby. What kind of mother doesn't love her baby? A mother who doesn't is just cold and heartless. But, now that I know what I'm expecting,I'm in a way happy. I have loving grandparents whom I live with and I know they will help me with this. They don't judge me,just support me. I'm keeping my baby. Don't miss out on your baby's life. Tell your parents and keep that baby. Hope I helped.

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