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15 and pregnant by a blk guy

  • thresa
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12 years 1 month ago #1 by thresa
thresa replied the topic: Re:15 and pregnant by a blk guy
hey- i am also pregnant by a blk guy, and every one around me is racist, who cares, what they think, at your age though, you might be caught in some parental issues, i mean what can you do about it except pray about it, and if i am not mistaken, when you have a baby, you are automatically emancipated, and are able to make your own desisions for your baby, as long as no one can say you are unfit, and that has to be proven, you can take care of your own baby, you will see that as a mothe you grow up very quick, and your baby is really all that matters, you can do it, i was a teenage mom, and i have gone far, without my parents, and without a baby daddy around, you can too i am here if you should need advice,

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12 years 1 month ago #2 by poohbear8
poohbear8 replied the topic: Re:15 and pregnant by a blk guy
Its ok i'm biracal and my grandparents didnt talk 2 me half my life cuz they were \"racist\" i had 2 go se her so she would understand that just because i'm half black doesnt mean anything. i'ts just a color she put my mom out her house when she found out she was pregnant by a black guy it's fun being both cuz u have a big family on both sides and u always have pretty hair and eyes i love being biracal u get 2 see things from both sides and biracal babys are so pretty u have 2 see when u have your baby keep it it should b apart of your family no matter what black&white or just white it doesnt matter,
*Good luck* ~poohbear8~ ;) B) :P :laugh:

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12 years 1 month ago #3 by ALEXXES
ALEXXES replied the topic: Re:15 and pregnant by a blk guy
WELL I AM 17 AND PREGNANT BY MY BOYFRIEND OF 4 MONTHS...I AM 4 WEEKS AND 2 DAYS AND I AM NAUSEUOS CONSTANTLY BUT THE THING THAT HELPS STOP IT IS LEMON AND GINGER ALE ..BEST SECRET KNOWN TO WOMAN ...I HAVENT ACTUALLY THROWN UP YET AND I AM CONSISTENTLY PRAYING THAT I DONT... I HATE THE FEELING ...BUT I WAS HAVING FIGHTS WITH MY FATHER ABOUT WHETHER TO ABORT THE BABY OR KEEP IT AND I SAY I KEEP IT AND HE OF COURSE IS THE OPPOSITE..I AM SO SURE THAT ABORTION IS MURDER THAT THE SUN IS YELLOW...BUT I BELIEVE THAT I AM OLD ENOUGH TO CARE FOR MY CHILD ON MY OWN ...MY MOTHER DIED THE DAY I HAD MISSED MY PERIOD AND ISNT GOD ALWAYS ON TIME.. I LOSE MY MOTHER AND WITHIN THE WINKING OF AN EYE I AM ONE ....I THANK GOD EVERYDAY FOR THE LIFE WITHIN ME AND I WOULD NEVER CONSIDER MY CHILD A BURDEN

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12 years 2 months ago #4 by Mandi
Mandi replied the topic: Re:15 and pregnant by a blk guy
I am 19 and pregnant by a black guy - who is 21 and my fiance. My father is a racist, too, as is one of my brothers.

Fortunately for me, I'm one of those people who don't care. The way it is is this, THOSE WHO TRULY CARE WILL DO NOTHING TO HARM YOUR BABY! And once that baby is born, you will see they will change their minds. Luckily for me, my fiance has been here throughout it all, from the very start. We have been together one year, and we didn't expect this pregnancy - but all pregnancies are blessings.

Hold your heads up! And keep in mind, you will be having BEAUTIFUL children. Biracial kids are the most beautiful kids I've ever seen. Be strong. Not only for yourself, but for your unborn child. You need to show your families the way. In the end, you'll see it was all worth it.

Do EVERYTHING you can to keep your babies....don't let anyone take them from you!

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12 years 2 months ago #5 by B_Me
B_Me replied the topic: Re:15 and pregnant by a blk guy


Hi there,
Well I know that it maybe very scary right now to think that there is so little that you can do. I am sure that you really want your mother to help you out and it seems like your father won't. Well I am 18 years old and 3 1/2 months preg. trust me when I say that you should pray.And stay very strong everything will work itself out because if it wasn't meant for you to bring that child into the world then you wouldn't have it. The best thing that I can say do is love yourself your body your boyfriend/ friend and love your baby as it grows. You and your baby will be fine I promise you that.

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12 years 2 months ago #6 by elyssa
elyssa replied the topic: Re:15 and pregnant by a blk guy
All of my children are biracial, and my father was also \"racist\" before I had my kids. I learned that he wasn't trying to be hateful, only scared of what he did not know. He was raised a certain way, and had to find it within himself to accept his grandkids for who they are. Once my babies arrieved, he realized that they too were as innocent as a white child, or any other for that matter, and now that they are older, the thought of them being biracial doesnt cross his mind. My kids are who they are because of their mother and father.
You have to stand firms in your beliefs, not your parents. I dont look at my kids as \"biracial\", only that they are my kids. Let others think what they want. You have to find the strengh within yourself to stand up for what you feel is right! Children ar a gift from God. White, black, or both!

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