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my babies father rather sell drugs

  • Amber
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11 years 11 months ago #1 by Amber

Girl you did the right thing dont let anyone tell you different. stay up :)

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11 years 11 months ago #2 by shadyslady2004
Hi Kandice. I just wanna say Im sorry about the father. Dont let ppl tell you what to do with your baby. Have the baby and raise her. You will find the right guy that can be the father of your baby.

You always miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

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11 years 11 months ago #3 by Katie
Kandace don't let anyoen put you down becasue of what you did. You did the right thing. OYur baby should be first and foremost in oyur life. If your bofriend card he wouldn't be bringing the drugs into your life his life or the babys life. I have a had a baby with a guy that did drugs an even though He was he love of my life and my Babys daddy I told him to either chose drugs or me and the baby and he chose drugs. So i dropped him..i miss him and love him like crazy but drugs is no suppsute for love. So don't give up you be there for your baby and let the right guy come along.

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11 years 11 months ago #4 by jamie
Good for you. I myself was in a horrible relationship and my boyfriend at the time wanted to do everything including selling drugs. He threatened to beat my face in and kill us. I was finally able to escape for the welfare mainly of my daughter. She is my gift from god and love her so much. I won't let him have anything to do with us due to he is no kind of dad. You did an outstanding remarkable job already being a mother. I want to commend you on this. It is hard for anyone to do this especially at your age.
This may get hard, but always love your daughter and take care of both of you. My daughter is now 15 mos. today and I wouldn't have it any other way.

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11 years 11 months ago #5 by ashbaby05
I want to congradulate you on having the strengh to take a stand. You put your child first and your emotions last. You are on your way to being a great mom. Do no listen to what yours friends say because they are wrong. You knew what you had to do and you did it. Yes it will be hard to raise a child by yourself but it would have been even harder to be with somone and still be on your own.

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11 years 11 months ago #6 by Lynne L
Listen if your babies father is selling drugs you did the right thing. You must feel terribly alone at the moment but your baby will be better off without a drug dealer/user for a dad. Trouble with the police wont be far away for him and you and your unborn baby deserve better and as for your so called friends telling you your stupid for leaving him they dont know what they are talking about I think you made a very brave decision. You and your unborn baby deserve to have a good life and you are young you dont need to rely on a man you are strong enough to do this. Please take care of your self and your baby and as for him try to put him out of your mind if he can sell drugs for a living what else is he involved with? Stay strong and I hope you will be fine and build a good life for you and your child xx. :)

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