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7 years 9 months ago #1 by summerangel
summerangel replied the topic: Re:i need advice..
Ok. So the father can't take the baby away from you. It's hard for a man to take a child away from it's mother completely. He's just playing mind games. And your mom will come around. She will probably want to be in the child's life. The best thing coming out of all this is the baby. It's better than an STD.

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7 years 9 months ago #2 by cams2know
cams2know replied the topic: Re:i need advice..
of course., please do not hesitate to wall on my page., everytime you need someone to talk to., ;) take care.,

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7 years 9 months ago #3 by chellex0o
chellex0o replied the topic: Re:i need advice..
thanks to everyone for comforting me on this.. i keep having really weird dreams. and i feel so tired and worn downn... i feel like no one really understands but the people on heeree.

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7 years 9 months ago #4 by small fry
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The deal is this is your baby! If you think that is what is best for you than it is. But just some advice- I am 29 now I had wo wonderful daugthers back to back, and whn I was pregnant i felt the same way. So just so you know it never gets easier. The weight of the world is on our shoulders to protect and love these children- to give them good lives. So just so you know it is ALWAYS nerve wracking. But the amount of joy you will feel for the rest of that baby's life is surreal. I remember looking at my baby and saying I AM GOING TO BE A GOOD MOM. And it has been harder than ever. I work full time and so does my boyfriend but we still manage. Little money and time but lots of love. I would give the world again to go back and have my daughters all over again. If you need help I am here you can email me anytime. No pressure though. Good luck whatever your decision is though! Katie

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7 years 9 months ago #5 by alteredartaffair
alteredartaffair replied the topic: Re:i need advice..
I agree don't worry about the threats the dad's making. They will probably come to nothing. & even so the fact that you've been on meds for over a year shows you are being responsible & not ignoring your health.

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7 years 9 months ago #6 by vhmiles
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I totally understand the confusion & fear you are dealing with right now. I got pregnant when I was 16 yrs old. I remember my Mom telling me "This child is NOT a gift from God!", she scheduled my abortion and attempted to force me there! I refused at the last min. I remember very clearly how scared I was about the doctors, all the check-ups I would have to go to and OMG Child Birth? WHAT? But I decided at the last min that I got myself into this and I was going to be the one making the decisions. If I was going to go through pain (one way or another with an abortion or childbirth) I was going to do the one that produced positive outcome! My mom forced me to move out! that didn't work because my BF swung a hammer at me one night so I moved home. Then I got smart - I told my mother that she may NOT be responsible for my Baby, but she was DEFINITELY responsible for me until I was 18 and she could not force me out of the house! That woman put me in an apartment and paid my rent until I was 18. I was VERY sick during my pregnancy! It was harsh! But I survived, Here I am at 32 with a beautiful 15 yr old girl whom I love more than life itself! I am not going to lie to you, it was VERY HARD, all the things I was scared of I was forced to face. None of it was as bad as I thought it would be. It made me have confidence in myself, showed me that I CAN DO THE THINGS I FEAR! I struggled for awhile, but I did pull through and I would NEVER change it for the world. I am married to a wonderful man who loves my daughter as though she came directly from him, own a business, etc. My Mom loves my daughter more than anything and her initial anger is now understandable to me. My point is teenage pregnancy is NOT the end of your life! It is the beginning of it! Your decision needs to be based on YOU! You can not let the father's threats scare you. He is scared out of his mind right now and thinks that if he scares you into thinking he will take your baby that you will have the abortion. This seems very typical for a young man in his position. STOP thinking about that! Start thinking about YOU. What do You want? Make your decision and deal with everything else when you get to it. Overloading yourself with too much is not good for you. RELAX, breath, stop listing to other people and really listen to your heart, thats all you can do.
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