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need help...

8 years 1 month ago #1 by cheried
cheried replied the topic: Re:need help...
hiya hunny,
please reconsider what you are thinkin about doing.

you are carrying a precious life!
please give that baby a chance. there are so many
girls who have bee in your shoes and they are great
mommies now. you can do it to,

tell someone you trust! your parents might be cross but
they will come around trust me i know.

your boyfriend, well he should be man enough to
stand up for his actions.
my boyfriend gave me alot of probs in the begining
of my pregnancy, once he held ashley, tears just filled
up his eyes. and now he is the most amazing daddy to ash

it seems like now abortion is the only way out,
i promise you its not, choose life for your baby
we are all here to give you support!

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8 years 1 month ago #2 by queenB
queenB replied the topic: Re:need help...
Hey, I'm glad you decided to post in the forum. From what you wrote, it sounds to me like you don't really want to have an abortion, but you are doing this to appease your boyfriend. Not only that he is convincing you to do something that is illegal in the country that you are in. If you are caught, I have no idea what the ramifications could be. What if you take the drugs and you have to go to the hospital?

The best advice that I can give you is to do what your heart is telling you - be a Stand Up Girl. Stand up for what you want and stand up for the life of your child. Although, all sorts of people deny it, the person that is inside of you really is a human being and deserves to live just as much as you or I do.

Being a mother is scary and it's not easy, but it is possible. You are not alone. Sometimes when we are at the bottom of a mountain and we look up we become overwhelmed about the amount of work it will take to climb up. However, you will find that as you start taking one step at a time, it becomes manageable and you learn that you can do it. When you think about being a parent, don't let it overwhelm you. Just take each day and each step at a time. You will be able to make it through this. You will be ok.

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8 years 1 month ago #3 by princess_angel
princess_angel created the topic: need help...
2 weeks ago i found out that i am pregnant and spoke the my boyfriend about it. but then he doesn't want the baby and wanted me to have an abortion at first i told him that i wouldn't do it but i still end up considering to have an abortion. in my country abortion is not allowed. but u can get medicine illegally to have an abortion which is i am scared to do. anyone can tell me if in singapore foreigners who wants to have an abortion can have it even though i didn't live there.. i really need your help.. i am now 6 weeks pregnant..

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