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Did you See an Ultrasound?

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8 years 3 months ago #1 by projectultrasound
projectultrasound replied the topic: Re:Did you See an Ultrasound?
Thank you both so much for sharing your incredible stories. They are a powerful testimony and I know people will be moved by them.



God bless you from Project Ultrasound

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8 years 3 months ago #2 by mummyandherlittleman
mummyandherlittleman replied the topic: Re:Did you See an Ultrasound?
You can use my story hun, but please change the names of my babies...

I was 21 and had been with my boyfriend for 3 years when I found out I was pregnant in December 2007. My initial reaction was shock, as I was, at the time, a college student, with 6 months left until graduation. My boyfriends reaction was also shock, as we had always used contraception. However, we were also very happy as we loved (and still love) eachother very much, and so decided that we would keep our baby.

Later that day we told his parents of our situation. To say that they were displeased is an understatement. His father started hollering at us, and asked whether we were keeping the baby or "dealing with it", as he chose to put it. When we said that we were choosing to keep our baby he went totally mad, all directed at me, saying that I was selfish and that I was messing up his sons life etc etc. He said it would be a simple procedure, it would only take a few minutes, and then everyting would go back to how it was before, and that I would know nothing about it! His mom wasnt quite so bad, she just said she was disapointed in us, and that she was sad about all the "couple things" we would miss out on by becoming parents.

However, as my boyfriends father rules in his house,his opinion stood,and he decided that if I kept the baby, I would no longer be welcome in his home, nor would my boyfriend, and he would have to move out. Not once was my college education mentioned.

Becuase of this, we decided that an abortion would be the lesser of two evils, so to put it, in our situation. The day we went to the clinic I cried and cried. When they called my name, I went with the nurse, for my dating scan, as I had no idea how far along I was. I wasnt looking at the sceen, but when she said that I was expecting twins, my heart stopped. She asked if I was ok and I said I was. She asked if I wanted to continue the procedure and I did. As the nurse was prepping me for theatre, I suddenly felt I had to get out. I told the nurse who was putting the needle in my arm to stop as I wasnt going through the produdure, and she said are you sure. I said yes and she actually hugged me and said "you will not regret this".

I wont pretend we had an easy time from his family, but they came around to the idea of being grandparents. My Pop was also very supportive.

The pregnancy itself went as well as it could be considering I was in college, with everyone looking and talking about me, as if I was the first pregnant person they had ever seen. I graduated when I was 29 weeks pregnant.

The trouble started when I went for my 32 week checkup. I was told that I had severe pre eclampsia, and that I was being admitted to hospital for monitering as the babies heartbeats were very slow and they seemed very small for their gestational age. As you can imagin, I was terriified.

19 hours later, I was being wheeled down to theatre for an emergency c-section. I had a little boy named Alfie, weighing 2lbs 120z and measuring 12 iches, and a little girl named Olivia weighing 1lb 5oz and measuring 11 iches. They both had severe problems with breathing and others and sadly Olivia passed away 5 hours later inside her incubator. I hadnt even seen her apart from a 5 second glance when they lifted her out of me as she was so sick they took her straight to the neonatal intensive care unit, and I was too sick to go there. I did get to hold her and dress her later, though it broke my heart.
Alfie howver, stayed in the neonatal intensive care unit for 9 weeks until he was allowed home. He is now a happy, healthy 11 month old boy.

Thank you for taking the time to read this

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8 years 3 months ago #3 by Meg11
Meg11 replied the topic: Re:Did you See an Ultrasound?
An ultrasound played an important part in keeping my first child..I was sent to the radiologist upon finding out I was pregnant because they had suspicion of tubal pregnancy. The radiologist told me that my baby was the spot on the screen that looked like a little speck of pepper, I was 19, in shock and on the verge of break up with the dad so the whole way home all I could repeat in my head is "pepper, pepper, pepper" I agreed to have an abortion and then my mom and my sister convinced me not to...all this to say my daughters middle name is Pepper!! So yeah, the ultrasound had a life long effect!! Meg

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8 years 3 months ago #4 by projectultrasound
projectultrasound created the topic: Did you See an Ultrasound?
Hello all,
We are looking for women who saw an ultrasound and chose life because of what they saw. I am the founder of a charity which is raising money to purchase ultrasound machines for pregnancy centers where women will be able to see their baby before making the biggest decision of their life, (www.projectultrasound.org )

We want to tell the stories of women who saw their baby and chose life because we believe these stories are the most powerful evidence of the power of the ultrasound. If you want to use your story to impact people in a huge way please contact me at info@projectultrasound.org. Please note no real names will be used in your stories, all personal information will of course remain anonymous.

God bless

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