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abortion i wish i never had...i cant move on

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8 years 7 months ago #1 by kathygirl127
kathygirl127 replied the topic: Re:abortion i wish i never had...i cant move on
awee thats a cute namee...i go to psychotherpay too im depressed soo i go there....mine was named Felipe Antonio Sabellichi..even though i didnt know what i was having because i was too early

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8 years 7 months ago #2 by Evangeline
Evangeline replied the topic: Re:abortion i wish i never had...i cant move on
Hey Kathy,
I think that Felipe is a beautiful name :)
How are you holding up?

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8 years 7 months ago #3 by stumblebum
stumblebum replied the topic: Re:abortion i wish i never had...i cant move on
i know exactly what you're going through, i had an abortion 3 years ago now and i still feel awful about it. one piece of advice i will give is TELL SOMEONE HOW YOU'RE FEELING. i didn't and now im having to have psychotherpay because of it. dont keep it all in.

p.s. mine was called travis :o)

xx

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8 years 7 months ago #4 by kathygirl127
kathygirl127 replied the topic: Re:abortion i wish i never had...i cant move on
yea thats true thank you....well we named the baby as a boy...Felipe since i am spanish i wanted my baby to have a spanish name..:)

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8 years 7 months ago #5 by Evangeline
Evangeline replied the topic: Re:abortion i wish i never had...i cant move on
It's a pleasure hun :) I know how confusing it can be to find yr way in the begining.

I think naming yr baby has alot more to do with grieving than simply the gender... As a woman, you saw the pregnancy as a potential baby and therefore you'll greive like a mother who lost her baby due to a m/c (and yr allowed to mourn).
But there are many other memorial activities that you can do to remember yr baby, such as buying yrself a apecial piece of jewllery to remind you of the baby, like a ring, and maybe engrave the 'loss date' inside it.

Or
some women gat a tattoo of their baby's name or the 'loss date' or something significant that reminds you of yr baby.

Or
Write a letter or poem to your baby, quite a few of us wrote letters in the 'after the choice' forum.

Or
you can ask a local headstone company and ask them to make you a small headstone for yr garden with the baby's name or nickname and the loss date on it.

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8 years 7 months ago #6 by kathygirl127
kathygirl127 replied the topic: Re:abortion i wish i never had...i cant move on
thank you for your support...i dont know what my baby was wheter it was a boy or girl.....

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