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9 years 2 weeks ago #1 by breathless
breathless replied the topic: Re:Help...
Hey girly. I got pregnant at fifteen to and it was incredibly scary. I don't think I've ever cried so hard in my life...I wanted an abortion but after a long time thinking, I knew I couldn't. Guess what? My boy just turned one the day before halloween, he's the most amazing little thing, walking all over the place with his naked bum, smilin at me with all of his four teeth, soapy curls in the tub and a hug and a kiss at night. Kids are amazing, don't let your age take that joy from you. Don't think of yourself as a teenage mom, just think of yourself as mom, mamma, mother, Mum. It'll be harder, that's for sure. But it is SO worth it.

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9 years 2 weeks ago #2 by TooHelp
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You should talk to your parents. I am not sure what your story is but, you should at least talk to an adult you trust.

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9 years 3 weeks ago #3 by pregnantjunior
pregnantjunior replied the topic: Re:Help...
my parents are pushing me to get an abortion.
i really dont want one.
my boyf wants the baby too.
but everyone is different., but read the stories of girls who have been there - gaurntee you'll give birth.
im not a big christian or anythin , im not married and im only 18 , but if i got an abortion i kno id always think what could have been.....

tell your parents - i was so scared tellin mine , and i was right at first they were ok.
now they not talkin to me at all coz im keepin it , and they hate my boyf.

if you dont kno how to start the convo you can do two things
!1. say the smell of food cooking is making you sick, . ect .. they will ask you !
or 2 . wait untill your about 7 weeks ( countin from 1st day of your last period) and go to a&e complainin with pain in your side and stomach. they'll think appendix 1st and then figure out your pregnant and tell you and your parents - you act stupid , parents will feel sorry and wont be to mad.

hope i helped coz i wish someone would help me.


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9 years 3 weeks ago #4 by mygirlsnov7th08
mygirlsnov7th08 replied the topic: Re:Help...
i'm going to be honest i'm not going to tell you not to abort or anything but being 15 and pregnant is hard. really any age and being pregnant is hard.

have that little life inside of you is a blessing especially when you have that little blessing and hold him/her.

i got pregnant when i was 15, i was scared to tell my parents but when i did they took it okay... so who know ur parents might not freak out.

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9 years 3 weeks ago #5 by jessey223
jessey223 replied the topic: Re:Help...
Hi and welcome to the site. I just wanted to let you know that I have been in your shoes twice, once at 15 almost 16 and again at 18. The first time I was pressured by my parents to have an abortion and it is something I will never forget. For years it was very difficult for me. I still remember the day my baby was supposed to be born. At 18 I got pregnant again and I KNEW I WAS GOING THRU WITH HAVING THE BABY. My daughter is now almost 6 and she is the best thing that ever happened to me. It did not ruin my life like my parents said it would. So sit back and think about it, you are the one that is going to have to live with this decision. Best of luck. Jessica

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9 years 3 weeks ago #6 by Autumn
Autumn replied the topic: Re:Help...
Hi Ally. :) I'm fifteen, too, and 28 weeks pregnant. Although my boyfriend is supportive and a great guy, I do know what you're going through. I've seen it with a friend of mine and it's very rough to get through this. But you can do it without him! It's nice that you have your boyfriend now to be there with you to support you through this hard time, but this baby is a child and should not be aborted. This is a life. Remember that. You need to stand up and make the decision to keep the baby or give him/her up for adoption. You'll be so much happier.

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