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9 years 3 months ago #1 by kez_mummy_2_skye
kez_mummy_2_skye replied the topic: Re:i think i need some advice.
Dont let anyone tell you what to do.
Thats disgusting saying to you that he will marry you only if you get rid of the baby. I wouldnt do it.
Do you know that he isnt the father?

Just ignore your ex and move on.

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9 years 3 months ago #2 by sonal
sonal replied the topic: Re:i think i need some advice.
Im 16 and obviously i cant support my baby but what i can tell u is, there is enough support out there for you n ur baby. trust me, its what made me want to keep my baby. i was 8 weeks pregnant. everyday id go online to check whats happening with my baby. see how she/he is growing.

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9 years 3 months ago #3 by sonal
sonal replied the topic: Re:i think i need some advice.
Yeah, that same thing happened with me n my boyfriend. u dont need anyone to tell u what 2 do, like it mentioned before its ur baby ur body ur life

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9 years 3 months ago #4 by jennlynn
jennlynn replied the topic: Re:i think i need some advice.
well i have an update on the whatever he is, lastnight over facebook he told me he doesnt want a family, he doesnt want me and he deffinatly doesnt want someone elses baby. ouch that hurt.. but the good news is hes 3 provinces away for a few more weeks, so while he continues to flirt with other people.. i have his xbox 360 psp and 300 drum dbl kick pedal, and i put them all for sale.. as to seeing how i paid for the psp and kick pedal anyways, i should just be able to sell them, he flipped out at me, and told me he hated me, but i guess 2 can play these headgames, but even though i have the evil side to me, im still miserable..

and another thing the babys actual father talked to me for 2 nights in a row, which is like amazing to me, so maybe hell smarten up and i can leave it all in the dust * crosses fingers *

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9 years 3 months ago #5 by Michelle007
Michelle007 replied the topic: Re:i think i need some advice.
This is so sad. Im sitting in the same situation. i found out im pregnant on Tuesday, im not sure how far anything from 3-5weeks. Going to the doctor on Monday. My boyfriend has allready booked the abortion the end of the month. im 23 and he is 26. i understand his point of view, we arnt ready financially and he's not ready physically. we still want to do so much, travel the world, study. we just bought a house, and he wants a bike not a child.

what do you do? i cant rise the child on my own, where do i stay? were do i get money from? my salary is only that "big".

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9 years 3 months ago #6 by sonal
sonal replied the topic: Re:i think i need some advice.
I know how your feeling. The exact same thing happened to me. I was pregnant and i just had an abortion ( not even been a week) the reason i had an abortion was because my boyfriend said the exact same thing to me. He said if i get rid of it he'll stay with me and get married and then we can have a baby. I wanted to keep the baby. When i told him i was going to keep it he went mental, he swore and had fights with me, he said if i keep it he'll leave me and if he see's me in the street he'll kick me in my tummy. I had the abortion because i love him too bits, but i also love my baby.
What im going to say to you is, this is your life, your body and your baby. I wish i kept my baby. Everyday i cry because its not in my tummy now where it belongs. Its the most horrible feeling ever. I would do anything to have my baby back. I feel stupid for listening to my boyfriend because i dont know if he will stay with me. Your baby will stay with you, you can't be sure about your boyfriend.
Please take the time to think about this. I have been in your situation, threatened and scared. And my outcome is i regret it and i hate what i have done. If you need to talk, message me. But please, think before you do anything. Your a girl, no guy is going to know what it feels like to carry a baby in your tummy, your own baby.

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