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9 years 4 months ago #1 by MissKirsty
MissKirsty replied the topic: Re:Unsure...
Hi there!
first of all, before you get really scared, you need to find out whether or not you are pregnant. Wait until your period is due (or if you don't have consistent periods wait two more weeks) and then take a HPT or get a blood test.
If you do find out that you are pregnant, please consider your options! As so many of the girls on here will tell you, abortion is not a good choice. Adoption is a really good alternative if you don't want to keep the baby.
But don't have an abortion just because your situation isn't good or your family won't support you. You will regret it for the rest of your life.
If you need support, that's what this site is for!
So wait until you know for sure if you are pregnant before you get too worried, ok hun?
Make sure to let us know when and what you find out and what you decide to do.
Hugs! :-)

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9 years 4 months ago #2 by indecorous
indecorous created the topic: Unsure...
Im not even really sure if this is the right forum to be placing this topic but, here goes...

I've actually been around the site for awhile but it hasnt been until recently that i realized i now really need it.

Two weeks ago i had a very random one time fling with a \"sort of\" friend, protection was used but not consistently. And for about a week now i've been feeling ill especially so in the mornings although it lasts all day. And i scared i may be pregnant...?

If i am im really not sure what to do. I dont think i can have this baby...im a 20 yr old student who lives with family an soon have to find a place on my own. I will have little family support. The baby will be bi-racial. The father has his own issues an a relationship.

scared and confused.

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