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im running out of time

9 years 6 months ago #1 by Kandace.
Kandace. replied the topic: Re:im running out of time
My heart like meagens is also breaking for you. But listen babe, you DO have a choice it is your baby. It can be hard on us mothers to raise a child but there is alot of other options then killing it. like i said its you baby not mine so you have to make the choice nobody can make it for you, do what your heart telles you to do. Please keep the baby, oyu wont regret iit. =).:)

You may have time for kids in the future but its your boyfriends and your own responsibility to raise this kid.

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9 years 6 months ago #2 by cheried
cheried replied the topic: Re:im running out of time
thanks so so much for everyone that gave me advice it has really made me think,

last night i spoke to my boyfriend i was at his house at the time and he said to me we should keep it. i got a feeling that it was all going to be okay.

when i got home he called me and said his mom and him had a huge fight and she said im not allowed in their house anymore. i dont know if anyone has had this but you treat your bf parents with such respect and you get treated so horribly in return.
then he started with the doubts where we cant have this child because of his mom. it like he trying to play mind games with me.

he also said he had told one of his friends and that friend said if we know what is best for us i will go through with the abortion. my bf keeps telling me that we have plenty time for kids and because im so early still it wont matter if i abort it.:dry:

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9 years 6 months ago #3 by alexanders_mama
alexanders_mama replied the topic: Re:im running out of time
I would let your baby live if you know what I mean.
Wow! You made a life! That is so...amazing....I know it may not sound real to you right now, but that baby is going to be the best thing that ever happens to you....
Just read the accounts of the girls who've had abortions, and read the ones who chose to give birth....and decide which ones seem happier for yourself.
Right now IS hard. But if you get an abortion, tomorrow is just going to be harder; and will have to live with the fact that you destroyed that life inside of yuo that if you really think about it, is such a miracle.
Hope all goes well!

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9 years 6 months ago #4 by lou_x
lou_x replied the topic: Re:im running out of time
you asked 'should i go through with this abortion?' & my answer to that would be NO! this baby is a part of you, your flesh & blood. you say you dont want to do it so dont! you would regret it if you did want to do it so considering you dont just imagine how hard this is going to be. its your body & its your baby & no-one has the right to tell you what to do with it. your boyfriend is totally in the wrong for telling you to get rid of it, at the end of he day if he didnt want a baby then he shouldnt of gotten you pregnant, & the fact that before this he had told you he would be supportive if this happened is bang out of order! being a mum is always a challenge & it would be even more of a challenge if your boyfriend doesnt grow up & take responsibility for his actions but you could do it. you sound like you want this child, you have a little person growing inside you & its precious! please please just think about this before you do anything harsh! even if you cancel it & then rebook it a few weeks down the line, just give yourself a chance to think about this. you only just found out, i think you need more time! good luck whatever.

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9 years 6 months ago #5 by slbabe8
slbabe8 replied the topic: Re:im running out of time
Hi, I just wanted to say I'm sorry that you are going through this alone.Even if your boyfriend has made up his mind about not keeping this baby- if you want to, you should sit down and discuss your feelings about it.Let him know that you don't want the abortion, and if he still is not supportive of having the baby than think about what you can do about raising the baby alone.If you truly don't want the abortion than don't do it.Trust me, there are SO many young girls who've had babies wihtout the support of the baby's father.You can do it without him if you really want to keep this baby. I believe everyone has the right to decide for themselves what is right for them.Also, try telling your parents..if your boyfriend isn't going to do this with you than maybe your parents will help you.If your scared to tell them..don't worry they might surprise you by being a great support team.I hope everything works out okay and if you need to talk I'd be happy to try and help anyway I can.Good luck! xoxo

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9 years 6 months ago #6 by HighDefinitionLove
HighDefinitionLove replied the topic: Re:im running out of time
Keep your baby honey, believe me it will be the best thing you've ever done. You have no idea what kind of light your own child can bring you and you don't have to have the father in your life to experience that. Please don't feel alone! Not only do you have tons of girls that will back you on this site, you also have a wonderful new life growing within you! Get excited!

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