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QUESTION plz help

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9 years 11 months ago #1 by dobbiemom
dobbiemom replied the topic: Re:QUESTION plz help
I can tell you this. Your boyfriend just wants the easy way out naturally. However for you abortion is NOT an easy way out. It is your body and consience that will have to deal with an abortion not his. I pray you will make the correct for yourself and your baby. :0)

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9 years 11 months ago #2 by loveU
loveU replied the topic: Re:QUESTION plz help
No your bf does not get a choice. It's your body and your baby. If you let him keep talking you into this kind of stuff you will end up HATING him eventually. Do what you think is right. When I first found out I was pregnant my bf was devistated but as my pregnancy progressed he got really excited and now that she's here he loves her so much! So he may actually come around he's probably just scared! Good Luck!

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9 years 11 months ago #3 by alexanders_mama
alexanders_mama replied the topic: Re:QUESTION plz help
Has the boy actually thought about anyone else but him?
The pain he causes you, and the fact that there's a little human being growing inside of you?
Doesn't sound like a healthy relationship, he seems a bit selfish. I'm sorry if I'm wrong, I know I don't know him, but if he loved you he wouldn't say those things.

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9 years 11 months ago #4 by Alexas_lil_angel
Alexas_lil_angel replied the topic: Re:QUESTION plz help
I'm sorry but I don't like the sound of your bf one bit. Yes I don't know him so I'm only judging my a short story you have told but he doesn't sound very nice.

I assume he says he loves you, well if he truly does he would support you no matter what you decided.

I know its hard on both of you but remember this is your baby too not just his. This baby is growing inside of you not him. I think if you want to give this baby up for adoption then go ahead and do it. Personally I'm not for abortions so I think when ever its possible the baby should be born.

I think that you need to get out of this relationship. Really think hard about it. He is trying to control you, yes it might be hard on him but has he thought about how you feel for a second?

He got you pregnant once and I'm sure he has heard of condoms but he still went ahead and did it again. When will he learn from his mistakes? I know mistakes happen and it wasn't meant to be but I would assume if he doesn't want children so badly he would do something about that?

You are a beautiful young girl with a whole life ahead of you. Don't let yourself be pushed around because you might regret it in the future.

I'm sorry if I come off a bit harsh but I just find it so sad when I hear of girls staying in relationships where they are never truly happy and maybe you are but from the sounds of it you aren't.

I hope you make the decision that you feel is best what ever that might be.

xxAlexa

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9 years 11 months ago #5 by kianasmommi17
kianasmommi17 replied the topic: Re:QUESTION plz help
listen sweeite have the baby dont listen to him he shouldnt have gotten u pregnant twice if he didnt want to be a father ur the one going thru everything so u decide what u want 4get him i dont think u will be able 2 do the adoption thing either cuz u will fall in love with dat baby the whole way thru ur pregnancy and the moment u give birth u fall in love with ur child b4 birth but fall in more love the second he or she comes out of u that the beauty and power of motherhood if he dosent want 2 be around o well ur not da 1st tenn mom and ur not da 1st single mom either if the rest of us can do it then so can u

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10 years 5 days ago #6 by xShelliBoOx
xShelliBoOx replied the topic: Re:QUESTION plz help
ok well basically, you see that he doesnt want a baby anytime soon so yall need to use protection or dont let him have sex with you .. by him sayin, YOU'RE CONTROLLIN HIS LIFE BY KEEPIN THE BABY is selfish .. i believe you should keep the baby if you want .. if not then give it up for adoption .. dont abort .. BUT DO WHAT YOU WANT !! he's just being a selfish, scared little boy .. YOU DECIDE, NOT HIM !!

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