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In Love with 2 Lovers ?

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10 years 1 month ago #1 by Amber18
Amber18 replied the topic: Re:In Love with 2 Lovers ?
I was in the same situation as you a few years ago i was totally in love with my boyfriend at the time then met someone else and fell for him. I ended up dumping my boyfriend for this guy and it was the biggest mistake i ever made!! Everything was great with the new guy until a couple of months ago when he finished with me for someone else.
If i could go back i would never of dumped my boyfriend.

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10 years 1 month ago #2 by kez_mummy_2_skye
kez_mummy_2_skye replied the topic: Re:In Love with 2 Lovers ?
very hard situation to be in.
In some ways i say tell the first b/f to leave you alone, you have moved on with your life now and established a good relationship.
But then i wouldnt want to be in a relationship and love someone else which would be living a fake life. Maybe tell them both to go...i really dunno

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10 years 1 month ago #3 by breathless
breathless replied the topic: Re:In Love with 2 Lovers ?
hmm...My first thought was that an old romance comes back into the picture and it's so exciting and passionated and all that jazz so that when you look at your present boyfrien it's kind of like the same old thing, nothing new, nothing exciting. The fact is, if you reeally love this old boyfriend and want to be with him for a long time what are the chances that eventually he's just going to be the same old thing to you? Excitement and lust are great, but not so much when they can hurt someone you really care about..your present boyfriend for example. Think it over and see if this is a impulsive decision based on lust and what not or if you truly love this guy and would leave your boyfriend of two years for him. I don't know, it's really all up to you, good luck though, I hope it works out to your liking.
Anna

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10 years 2 months ago #4 by bweber
bweber replied the topic: Re:In Love with 2 Lovers ?
hey just let life run it's own course...cuz if ur meant to be with him then it'll happen..and besides u feel that way cuz it is something new, when u've been with someone for so many years something new feels right but it may not be...i can tell u from expirience, something kinda like that happened to me but it was someone new not someone old that came into my life, BUT i'm now married to the one i've been with for over 3yrs now NOT that other guy..he was just something that made me realize i couldn't live w/out my hubby....so think b4 u do ne thing....good luck

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10 years 2 months ago #5 by xShelliBoOx
xShelliBoOx replied the topic: Re:In Love with 2 Lovers ?
yes i do love my BF .. i just dont kno who i want to be with .. i wanna be with my x more right now but i think its just becuz its exciting and stuff right now .. i duno .. & i appreciated u for respondin

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10 years 2 months ago #6 by mommy6
mommy6 replied the topic: Re:In Love with 2 Lovers ?
well you must make before its to late meaning they feel like your 2 much into the other person n say forget it. its got to be hard do you love the new bf cause you have to have feelings for him rite but maybe not im love with him??? you need to ask your self all thses questions before you jump. maybe it feels old with your bf n you wnat to be with your x. well i think if you truley love your x n think hes the one i would say thats your choice than but dont threw away a good relonship with your new bf if thre is love there.i hope this helped you prob not but tell you what your heart says do that.good luck

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