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Pregnant and 15... help

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12 years 7 months ago #1 by visitor
visitor replied the topic: Re:Pregnant and 15... help
hey, i'm 16 years old. and i think i might be pregnant.... i'm afraid to go buy a test... my boyfriend calls me about everyday asking me if i've started my period yet because he's really worried about it.... i keep telling him \"not yet, but don't worry\" i tell him that to keep him calm, but i'm really getting worried, my period was supposed to start around the 27th, and it's the 31st and still nothing.... i dont know what to do.... i'm getting really scared....

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12 years 7 months ago #2 by lilkandy
lilkandy replied the topic: Re:Pregnant and 15... help
i know what it feels like too. im 16 and im 7 1/2 months pregnant and it hasnt been easy i went through alot and me and my babies father isnt together anymore because he chose to sell drugs and drop out of school and even go to jail. but my family supports me alot. dont get me wrong it wasnt always this good my family kinda didnt want anything to do with me at first but as time flew by and they seen how determined i was to give my daughter a good life they came around and wanted to help me. im glad i kept my baby and didnt do what everyone else wanted because i love her soooo much and became soooo attached and to think she's not even born yet. now i understand how women fall in love with their baby at first sight. :) you'll be fine

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12 years 7 months ago #3 by nicole
nicole replied the topic: Re:Pregnant and 15... help
im 15 and i think im pregnant..the reason im replying is because were both 15 i really need support right now...we can talk get back to me..

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12 years 8 months ago #4 by babyluver05
babyluver05 replied the topic: Re:Pregnant and 15... help
Hey,
I know what your going through i got pregnate at 15 to and it is alot of things going through your mind right now. I know it is hard but trust me i come home to my son everyday and i wouldnt change it for the world because when you come home and see your child you will say to yourself it was worth it and no matter how bad your situation gets there always there for you and need you. Hope you make the right decision.
Amber

Hey if youever need advice or want to talk just email me im 16 and i have a 14 month old son and was in the same situation that you are. ataylor88@verison.net

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12 years 8 months ago #5 by Magen
Magen replied the topic: Re:Pregnant and 15... help
Hey girl, I know how you are feeling. I am fifteen right now and about 8 months pregnant. This April my son will be here any day. When I found out that I was pregnant, or when i thought that I could be, was one night when i snuck out to see my boyfriend and he asked if i thought i could be... Pregnant. Well I was kind of confused because, no that never even crossed my mind. but then after awhile I started freaking out about it and haveing these dreams that I was. so I got 20 dollers from my mom one weekend and had my friend go out to the store and pick me up a pregnancy test that was at least 98% accurate. When she did we went into the movie theater where she worked and took the test... at frist it was just one line and that ment \"no\", so i took it out of my friends hand and about threw it away... But when I grabed it she told me to hold on, slowly the second line came, my heart just felt like it was shuved down my throat. All I kept saying was, no.. this has to be wrong! (it was only 99% accurate) so a few weeks later i got more money and bought another test, that well ended up positive also. I didnt know how to tell my boyfriend.. I wasnt even aloud to be WITH him in the first place, and now i was pregnant with his child. Later that day, i seen him walking to his cousins house, so i ran after him to tell him the news, he said, well he didnt really have to say anything i could see it in his eyes that he was scared. him and i went to the community schools benches because that hid us from the public, and from the police. All I thought i could say was Sorry, I felt as if it were my fault. And he said sorry back and gave me a hug, then he said that he mise well just start gitting into trouble again because hes going to prison anyway now. Yeah, something you just want to hear... :angry: I told him that the test could be wrong. and that i will go to the health dep. tomarrow, when i did the woman took me into a seprate room, asked me my age, and asked if i was willing to be a mother. I was pregnant, and there was no turning back. When my mom found out, she said i wasnt having the baby and that i had to get an abortion, that didnt even cross my mind (like you said) to me I think its like killing someONE who never asked to be borne. and thats not right. But here i am rambling.. I kinda just wanted to tell you that if i can be 8 months pregnant and feel like its okay, and not dred over the fact, then you also can be happy at 8 months. Right know, I'm aloud to be with my boyfriend and I get along with my family more then i have ever... and even though i have lost alot of my friends, including the one who bought the tests for me, I still have my family My boyfriends family my two great friends and God. I thought he was angry at me for a long time, but really, he has a reason for all of us pregnant teenage girls, and we will some day relize why. Dont give up on anything esspesoly school, your child is depending on you, and will look up to you. I love you! and so does your child. :) and do me a favor... tell your baby i said Hi, when you see him;/her. Love always Magen and if you wanna email me please dont be scared to! my email is magen_boo_07@hotmail.com

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12 years 8 months ago #6 by Barb
Barb replied the topic: Re:Pregnant and 15... help
Hello my friend:


Have your baby. Keep your head up and do whats best for you. There are so many agencies out there that will help you through and after your pregnancy. They also help you with your education and what ever else you want to do in life. I have many friends who have had children at your age and have really made it. Also continue to ask god for stenght and guidance. Also if you ever decide to not keep your child there are so many families that would love to adopt.....Keep the faith.

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