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10 years 4 months ago #1 by 16anddntfeellikeit
16anddntfeellikeit replied the topic: Re:i just wanna go home!
both its normal 2 feel that way but it could be sumthin more serious like depression

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10 years 6 months ago #2 by sky685201
sky685201 replied the topic: Re:i just wanna go home!
you could just go home or you could tough it out and try and make some friends, join a moms group maybe being less lonely you would feel better. no i dont think pills is going to help.

i joined a moms group in my area through meetup.com mets some really nice lady's and now see them pretty regularly and my daughter has kids to play with while i have some mommy time.

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10 years 6 months ago #3 by krazykchan
krazykchan replied the topic: Re:i just wanna go home!
Depression Pills will not help! I moved to a different city with my boyfriend of two years. I thought we would get through everything fine.

After about 7 months I really just wanted to move back home to my family. We were fighting all the time and we broke up on and off multiple times. I was on depression pills when I moved up here and they never helped the situation at all. They do not fix the problems, They just help you deal with them better. And even that is only sometimes.

Needless to say, I got off them and moved back home. I stayed home for about 3 months while me and the boyfriend worked things out. Now, I'm back up in Buffalo with him and I'm happy. :lol: No pills for me.

I'm not totally against depression pills but they should only go to people who are really depressed, not just living in depressed situations.

--Kori Lyn
~Infertile at age 20-

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10 years 6 months ago #4 by bweber
bweber replied the topic: Re:i just wanna go home!
i know how you feel but i'm still preg, i moved to NewMexico with my husband (recently married) and i only know my in-laws here and all my friends are back in Wyoming, so i only have them here...i miss my friends so much....if u think that ur thoughts are not normal for u then go see a doc, if they seem normal for u then go see a doc...

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10 years 7 months ago #5 by goodluckyall
goodluckyall replied the topic: Re:i just wanna go home!
Did you go there with the boyfriend thinking you two would be each other's be all-end all? If so, this would cause a problem for you no matter where you lived. You need people in your life besides just your boyfriend. If you generally like where you're living and the environment would be good for your daughter, i.e. schools, weather, good doctors, etc. then maybe you just need to get out and make some friends. You might be the type to enjoy working rather than staying home. Take some classes, join some mommy groups, a church, etc. Maybe you're lonely in general. It wouldn't hurt to talk to your doctor, but if loneliness is the problem, pills won't help. You should think about if it's your family you miss, the familiarity of where you lived, or do you need an outlet aside from your life with boyfriend? Guys tend to be oblivious about such things, so it doesn't surprise me that he'd ignore you. :dry:

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10 years 7 months ago #6 by momma_of_isa
momma_of_isa replied the topic: Re:i just wanna go home!
Aww, I am sorry! I could understand how you feel cause I love my family and get home sick if I am gone for just a day!! If I were in your shoes...I would go home! It sounds like you dont even want to be there, and girl if that is the way you feel I say do what you want and take your baby girl and leave! You dont wanna be in a place where you feel unhappy or anything... Even if your bf tries to talk you out of it, you just stick up for your rights, guys shouldnt have no control over a woman...not even if he is the dad of your baby. If he wants to be with you so bad, how come he just dont move to your home? Sorry, but that is the way I see it! I hope you make the choice that makes you happy!! Good luck!!

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