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10 years 9 months ago #1 by ericklirios
ericklirios replied the topic: Re:scared.help

Please don't be scared of your parents. Don't even mind it if they get angry with you. Do the right thing and protect that baby of yours. If you get an abortion, you will go through the rest of your life knowing that you're supposed to have one of God's little miracles with you and you said no to it and to Him.

One of the reasons why I became part of a website like this is because I saw just how many young girls have gotten pregnant and here they are giving strength to one another. One other reason is that I took part in an abortion and because of that, I have killed one of my daughters and the two daughters that I have now will have to go through life not knowing what a beautiful girl and woman their elder sister could have been. Lastly, as I am a father now, I want to give you girls hope. Please understand that we parents get mad often because we're so scared that when we leave this earth, you may not be okay. We love our kids -- we just sometimes don't know how to show you.

Your parents love you. Let them be mad or disappointed but stand your ground. Show them that you can be mature. They'll probably ask you if you're ready for all this and what a mess you've gotten into. Just remember that that's probably what they told you also when you spilled milk a long time ago, wrote on the walls, broke some furniture, etc.

Protect your little miracle and sooner or later, they will come around. Parent can't turn their backs on their children for long and even more, they cannot turn their backs on their grandchildren.

You're 16 and it seems scary. Your little baby will make the rst of your life worthwhile. Won't it be such a great blessing being maybe 25 and your bestfriend and confidant is a 9-year old boy/girl?

Lastly, if you really need help, this site is a good source. Also, go to your church and make sure you listen to pastors/priests who value life. Also, if you need to talk to someone who's been there, done that and is happily married enjoying the fact that I do have children whom I didn't lose to abortion, feel free to email.


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10 years 9 months ago #2 by angel_gal84
angel_gal84 replied the topic: Re:scared.help
please dont get an abortion its not worth it. I had an abortion 3 months ago and its the most hardest thing in the world. I was pushed into having one by my boyfriend, he kept on saying get rid of it coz its not even a baby yet, or we aint ready or if you get rid of it we will get engaged. He proposed to me so he kept his promise.

The day that i found out that i was pregnant he told me to organise for an abortion, I was 8 weeks pregnant. i knew right there and then that i should have left him, but i thought that he would come around and accept that i was pregnant but he didnt, he even punch me in the stomach, but not hard enough to make me have a miscarrage

After i had my abortion i went into depression and i still have got it, i have to tabe tablets and see a social worker once a week coz i cant get over what happened. I have flush backs about what happend that day, i get them everyday and when i start crying, my partner always says we have done the right thing, but hes not the one that went through the operation so he does not know what i have been through

I wish to this day that i left him and kept my baby. So please think it through before you make any decision that is going to change the rest of your life

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10 years 9 months ago #3 by bweber
bweber replied the topic: Re:scared.help
please don't get an abortion...there are so many parents out there that would love to adopt a new baby.....and it doesnt' cost anything to give ur baby to a great family!.......

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10 years 9 months ago #4 by Lats
Lats replied the topic: Re:scared.help
why do u think u cant do it? i was 16 wen i got pregnant and now my son is 15months old and ive never been happier! i finished skool and im bout to start a degree. make sure u think about all of your options. but if thats what you truly want then no one can stop you. your parents may surprise you and support woteva decision you make

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10 years 9 months ago #5 by alexandmarcus
alexandmarcus replied the topic: Re:scared.help

if i was you then i would just tell my parents. Belive me it wont be as bad as you expected it to be! they might be mad and dissapionted at first but they will come around. Please re think the abortion it will be the biggest mistake of your life if you go through with it! You will always wonder how your life would of been if you had your baby.

email me if you want to talk


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10 years 9 months ago #6 by FrancesBeanMommy
FrancesBeanMommy replied the topic: Re:scared.help
I know this is a scary thing. But do you really think that aborting your child will make things better? If you really think that you cannot be a mother yet, then save your child for someone else who badly wants to be a parent and for some reason or another can't have children of their own. I fear that if you abort your baby, there will be extreme emotional repurcussions, not to mention the physical damage that can happen from abortions. Please talk to someone close to you about this, or get back with me if you want to talk. Abortion may seem like the easy way out, but nothing can erase the life inside you. And if you did decide to keep your baby and parent instead of putting him/her up for adoption, you could make it through school. It is NOT impossible. It may be rough, yes, but not impossible. Good luck to you, and please think before you take the \"easy\" way out. Love and God bless.

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