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9 years 8 months ago #1 by Ame07
Ame07 replied the topic: Re:Ame07
I get what your saying. I don't like any of it, but I know we're over. It's done, I can't go back...

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9 years 9 months ago #2 by kez_mummy_2_skye
kez_mummy_2_skye replied the topic: Re:Ame07
i get what u mean. I think its just best not to have anything to do with him at ALL. It is hard when there is love but you gotta do whats best for you and the kid.

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9 years 9 months ago #3 by CourtneyMichelle
CourtneyMichelle replied the topic: Re:Ame07
the same thing happened to me that mia3 was explaining. it's a little different though. my exboyfriend got me into drugs, and then my school found out and sent me to detox. after that, my parents stopped me from talking to him, which was the BEST thing they could've done, even though i didn't think so at the time. he even called my parents telling them i was pregnant when i wasn't just so he could see me. i had to completely cut him out of my life for him to get the point. he called my phone about 30 times a day for 3 days until he gave up. at one point i had to disconnect my house phone so he wouldn't keep calling at night. after he gave up, i felt like i was finally free after two years of abuse. it was horrible at first because i didn't know what to do with myself because i put my entire life into TRYING to change him and TRYING to make him happy, but i realized that wasn't possible.

so after i realized this, i got support from close family and my best friend and it was the best thing i could do. don't be afraid to ask for help - you won't regret it. i felt stupid at first because i knew that i couldn't hide what he did to me anymore, but they already knew before i said anything. they helped me stay busy and get my life back on track. don't do this alone, and know that any abuse is BAD and you can't change him once he's done this to you more than once.

i guarantee that after a while you will feel so much better after a while. and be STRONG, don't answer his calls no matter what. completely cut him off if you don't want a dangerous environment for you and your baby.

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9 years 9 months ago #4 by Ame07
Ame07 replied the topic: Re:Ame07
Darling, are you that naive???? I mean granted it would be wonderful, but I think it's unrealistic to even consider it. Also, I don't want his filthy money.....it's drug money....thats like saying \"I hate that you deal, but keep dealing because I need child support...\"

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9 years 9 months ago #5 by randomchyck220
randomchyck220 replied the topic: Re:Ame07
oh no no hunny loll have the court do it for you, if he doesnt pay then he goes to jail

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9 years 9 months ago #6 by Ame07
Ame07 replied the topic: Re:Ame07
Are you serious? You want me to ask my maniac ex to pay child support? That's got to be the funniest thing I've heard all day. I mean how would I do that? I'm sure as heck not going to appraoch him and be like you need to pay me child support. Oh god I can just picture that. Can you say hello intensive care?:laugh:

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